By whatserbucket
It’s no big secret that I’m not a big fan of Walmart. I avoid it to the best of my ability. When I’m not disgusted with it’s corporate practices I’m hyperventilating at the thought of entering the eternally echoing aisles of crap piled so high I feel like I’m going to die in a mess of Christmas albums with the word Redneck in the title. The enochlophobic claustrophobe in me can’t deal with the place and somehow blaming the corporation itself for all of the world’s ills makes me feel better. Everyone needs a scape goat, right? Now that we’re straight on that, I can tell my tale.
So the other day I get a little catalog in the mail. At first glance I think, “oh neat, Pottery Barn has spawned a cheaper little brother!”. Right down to the font choices, layout, and lighting it mirrored one of my favorite covet books. I flip it over to see where it came from and there’s a return address of Pewakee, WI (not exactly Bentonville, folks). I read on. Every page has canopyliving.com next to the page numbers and quippy little sayings about how these items will fit seamlessly into my life. “Turn off the cell phone. Eat Cereal on the sofa. Turn on some cartoons. Relax, it’s Canopy”. It was more J. Peterman than Sam Walton’s 5 and dime. I become more and more curious about this Canopy store, picturing the items in my home etc.. As I turn the pages I find myself drawn to the simple clean lines and somewhat affordable prices. And then, page 26… TWENTY SIX PAGES IN, folks! There is what appears to be just another expertly staged room. On the terribly classy looking Home Office Desk - a “smartly outfitted” piece of allegedly hardwood furniture - there’s a laptop. The homepage on the screen (you have to squint a bit): Walmart.com. Doh! I turn a few more pages and there it is - Customer Service Call 1-800-WALMART. Arrrgggghhhhhhhhhh!
So it’s not enough that the blue and gray boxes are spreading like a virus all over the country spinning off into “neighborhood markets” and supercenters the size of Kansas while squashing small town economies and indenturing low income workers with laughable or no benefits. Now they’re masquerading as tasteful. Now before you jump my crap and wave the whatserbucket is an elitist bee-yotch who deserves to be locked in Sams Club for life flag I beg of you to at least admit that when the name Walmart comes up the first thing that comes to your mind is NOT “oh yeah, that place is JUST like Pottery Barn - so chic!”. You don’t immediately imagine designer-influenced product lines that could at first glance be compared to high-end or even handcrafted items. You think “cheap”, right? I mean that’s the thing I hear from people - “it’s SO much CHEAPER than everywhere else, though!” and “if we don’t shop at Walmart we really can’t get as much!”. Cheap is admittedly a loaded term that can mean lots of stuff to lots of people both in terms of quality and price. Don’t get me wrong, I like cheap, I “get” cheap, and I seek cheap to some degree (otherwise I would not have been excited about the “cheaper Pottery Barn” in my mailbox). I just loathe Walmart. I’ve gathered and am aware that my loathing is, in and of itself, perceived as a luxury to some people.
The thing is I was unaware that Walmart was even TRYING to represent itself as anything but the cheapest place to get stuff. I had no idea they were now leaning to anything other than blatant price slashing and emphasis on the bottom line. I mean what happened to the smiley face antenna bobbers and hostile negotiating with vendors to get rock bottom prices on jugs a plenty of pork rinds? When did Walmart step into the sheep’s clothing? I heard rumors they were going to be going “‘greener” by providing organic products and building token energy efficient stores to appeal to a more “liberal” (another loaded term) demographic but this not-so-subtly veiled marketing really caught me off guard. It was the catalog equivalent of the “Pradda” handbags and “Rulex” watches pedaled on street corners.
Psssttttt…. can you tell I’m PMS-ing? I haven’t posted in weeks and THIS of all things gets me riled up enough to vent in blog land. It’s not like Pottery Barn isn’t imported mass produced crap designed to appeal to the least common denominator, too (rolling eyes at myself). I need to go to bed.
Ok now you can go off on how hard hearted I am about America’s favorite place to shop and how you can feed your whole family for so much less and its so darn convenient and without falling prices you couldn’t afford that rabbit-in-a-dress vacuum cleaner cover.
Edited to add that comment #51 tries to clarify my intent with this post.




I too loathe/have-to-shop-at “Waldemort” and think this is the best post ever. You’ve captured my feelings perfectly… “rabbit-in-a-dress vacuum cleaner cover.” You’re killin’ me.
Comment #1 by randajoyMay 28th, 2008 at 12:01 pmOh no. You’re not wrong. Evil is as evil does. Walmart needs to be banned from all our lives. I don’t care if they have everything cheaper. They’re making life worse for everyone around.
Ever since I read this story
http://socialistworker.org/2008/04/04/wal-mart-new-low
I have been off Walmart and Sam’s. I read it about a month ago and combined with all the other horrid stories about them, I’m done. I have not been back and will not go back ever.
Comment #2 by chroniclerMay 28th, 2008 at 12:07 pmIt’s part of our marriage “contract” that I never shop at Wal-Mart. DH and I had a serious discussion about it while dating. I didn’t really care about Wal-Mart either way before I married him, but he’d seen a documentary about their business practices and said if we got married than Wal-Mart was never going to be part of our lives.
I’ve been a happy Target shopper ever since.
Comment #3 by ZinkaMay 28th, 2008 at 12:23 pmMy hubby’s family thinks we’re crazy for being so anti-walmart, but part of the reason why we don’t shop there any more is the fact that it’s outside our city. I can either drive 25-35 minutes to Walmart or walk over to the local neighborhood drug store (part of a chain, but at least a local chain). And we’re moving to another granola-type city soon so I guess there’s no Wal Mart in our future either.
Comment #4 by FoxyJMay 28th, 2008 at 12:32 pmwell I do not enjoy going to walmart… but my hubbie has ‘forbidden’ me to go there.. political reasons all….. I am glad to help him out with this one… although… We have been in podunktown USA (on business) and neeed something or other… and all we could find was walmart… durn near killed him to spend his money there…
Comment #5 by nancyMay 28th, 2008 at 12:34 pmnancyw
Wow. My SIL took me into a Walmart once, and that was the only time I’ve been. I wasn’t overly impressed. Luckily there are none near my house, so I’m not tempted! Fascinating.
Comment #6 by meemsMay 28th, 2008 at 1:01 pmThank you for that article link, chronicler. The second half of it is even more disturbing than the first.
If anyone is at all interested in a serious look at Walmart, get this book from your local library:
Comment #7 by whatserbucketMay 28th, 2008 at 1:10 pmWal-Mart: The Face of Twenty First Century Capitalism
http://www.thenewpress.com/index.php?option=com_title&task=view_title&metaproductid=1245
I had to go there twice yesterday…Scooter insisted on buying the snack for his little league team there “so it won’t cost you too much money, Mom.” He knows I hate the place, too. I don’t care how new, nice, clean or cheap it is — I hate Voldemart.
Comment #8 by KermitMay 28th, 2008 at 1:11 pmCan I join the “Walmart Haters” group too? I avoid it at all costs and despise even going near it. I feel just like you that there are too many people, the shelves are too high and everything is so messy! It makes me crazy to just think about the possibility of going there!
Comment #9 by Jamie JMay 28th, 2008 at 1:21 pmI’m from WalMart land (and as I write this, a WalMart commercial is playing on the TV), and I too hate it…but I’m surrounded! Some of my best friends work at the corporate office, as does most of NW Arkansas, but I still hate it. I get anxious and want to gag every time I’m forced to walk through those sliding doors. If we need something from WalMart, I wait until my husband can go, because I just refuse to do it. It’s too crowded, and there’s never enough lines open. Have I mentioned I hate WalMart?
Comment #10 by ClareMay 28th, 2008 at 1:31 pmI’m not a fan of the Wal-Mart either, but seriously…is Target all that much better? It seems to have a better wrap and appeals to a more “high class” type of shopper, but they’re essentially the same thing. Mass marketing cheap crap and lead infested toys. I just don’t get why Wal-Mart is vilified and Target is totally skipped over.
Here’s to shopping local and whittling our own toys!
Comment #11 by eMay 28th, 2008 at 1:33 pmThat was highly entertaining. I won’t post my views on shopping at WalMart because I’m a little hypocrticial in that I don’t like the store, but I still shop there for certain cheaper products anyway. (If anyone’s going to get tomatoes thrown at them now, it won’t be you. They’re all pointed in my direction.) But thank you for a great laugh that I needed just now.
Comment #12 by StarababaMay 28th, 2008 at 1:37 pmWalmart is great.
Comment #13 by JKSMay 28th, 2008 at 1:54 pmWalmart has done a lot of good for poor people.
Walmart gets their suppliers to sell at a lower price, reducing their profits. Its like a huge number of consumers go and request that corporations reduce their price.
Walmart passes on that savings to the consumer.
Walmart makes it possible for people to afford things that they otherwise could not afford.
Walmart’s competitors have to find ways to be more efficient to bring down their prices in order to compete.
Who wins?
The consumer.
And what kind of consumer?
It isn’t the Nordstrom shoppers. It is regular people, families, families who need diapers and clothes and toothpaste and wonder how to afford it all.
I think Walmart is great.
Um, my husband works for Walmart’s home office in their programming department. Walmart has been absolutely amazing to us - they let him take of 2 months of work so he could take care of me while i was on bed rest, then another month after our baby was born. I don’t particularly like living in Bentonville, so my husband got a job in Utah and when he told Walmart they offered to let him work for them from Utah, plus upped his salary substantially so we can make the move.
If I could afford to get my groceries at Sharper Image then fabulous, I am sure I would rather drop thousands of dollars there. But we ARE the regular people who can’t afford medicine, diapers, and food, and so Walmart’s low low prices has saved our butts more than once. It’s been wonderful - my baby has clothes to wear PLUS I can feed him because Walmart carries his special formula for cheaper than Target, and most of the other groceries here don’t even carry the special brand.
If I’m sacrificing quality for quantity, so be it. I’m okay with sitting at my Walmart table eating my Walmart dinner. I’ll even share my Walmart cookies with you. They are just cookies, after all.
Comment #14 by KrisMay 28th, 2008 at 2:04 pmI got the same catalog and threw it in the trash.
I’m still not over the fact that they sued to get that disabled women’s settlement money, because she was employed with them at the time, when she was in the accident (some kind of vehicle accident) and technically since she had walmart insurance at the time, and they paid the bills they had the legal right to go in and take the women’s settlement money. And no she’s not sitting at home on her barcalounger watching cable she’s in some kind of nursing home. I know after huge protests they decided to not take the only money she has to survive on in the nursing home, but shame shame shame shame on them for thinking they even needed one cent of her money.
Comment #15 by SarahMay 28th, 2008 at 2:07 pmWalMart is an evil virus, true. But here I go again…
I take issue with the way you seem to have more of a problem with it being low-class than anything else. Porkrinds, messy, cheap, redneck, rabbit-in-a-dress vacuum cover. And now they have the audacity to trick you into finding something they sell tasteful? It sounds more like you’re upset about the chance that you might have ended up ordering something from Canopy only to find out later you are now lumped in with the rest of the white trash. Elitist indeed.
e is right. Target and plenty of other stores are just as bad for local business and don’t deal fairly with those who produce the products they sell. But this doesn’t seem to be the point of your post. You seem more concerned with class systems. You seem disgusted by those you might see as being in a lower class than you. I think it’s mean-spirited to say the things you’ve said. I’m surprised no one else has mentioned it.
Comment #16 by solMay 28th, 2008 at 2:10 pmMy two 1/2 year old started spelling Wal-Mart yesterday. W-A-L-Star-M-A-R-T, Wal-Mart. I’m not sure if that means she is super smart, or if we go to Wal-Mart too often. I think it’s the latter, because she can also recite along with the self-check machine “Your receipt will print below the pinpad device. Thank you for shopping at Wal-Mart”.
Oh the shame.
Comment #17 by LindsayMay 28th, 2008 at 2:30 pmI pretty much LOVE WALMART! I don’t really care what anyone says about it. We all have our opinions… whateves.
Comment #18 by KristaMay 28th, 2008 at 2:53 pmI have outrage burn-out. I don’t forward emails that say, “if you care about this issue, forward it to your entire address book, but if you’re a lame lump of humanity who doesn’t care that the human race is flushing itself down the toilet, then delete this.” I delete it.
And I shop at Wal-Mart.
Comment #19 by MelindaMay 28th, 2008 at 2:53 pmI live in apartments, and our mailboxes are in a central location. There’s a large garbage can right next to all the mailboxes.
Here’s my process: Open mail box, remove mail. Look for bills or letters. Toss the rest in the garbage. (Which gets recycled.)
See how easy that is? Works like a charm.
Comment #20 by Susan MMay 28th, 2008 at 3:17 pmNo problems shopping at WM, it’s one of the stops when we get the chance to go into town (more than an hour away.) Do I enjoy it? Not really, but when I need to find things quick, and I don’t have the money to pay mega bucks, so be it.
Paychecks are skimpy when 2 of our 3 family members have crazy medical bills, plus all the things we NEED, not just the wants.
Comment #21 by MelMay 28th, 2008 at 3:21 pmTo each his own, I say. I do worry that if something were to happen to WalMart’s well-oiled supply chain, thousands (millions?) of people would be in a mess of hurt without any other shopping option.
I haven’t been inside a Walmart, but I’m kind of a open market, flea market, local grocer kind of girl.
Two years ago, over 3% of our national GDP was spent at WalMart. That scares me a little. One out of every $11 in our country was spent at WalMart. They’d better keep themselves running smoothly with that kind of pressure, or a lot of people will go hungry.
Comment #22 by JustineMay 28th, 2008 at 3:34 pmShaming my mother, I too, shop at walmart. I fall into the demographic of too poor to hate walmart. I have 3 kids in diapers (I’m working on the 2 1/2 year old, but the 6 month old twins will be in them for a while). And I think walmart has the best and cheapest generic diapers. That’s about all I buy there, though I do pick up other stuff when I am there for diapers. I agree with the comment about the walmart image being the problem. I’ve stood in line behind teenage moms paying with a WIC check and then her own father buying her walmart panties. Yuck! But you know, that’s a whole other post that could go in a billion different directions.
Comment #23 by LeahMay 28th, 2008 at 3:44 pmI will admit to not knowing much about how these things work, but from where I am sitting, Walmart seems great for those who are out of jobs. The Internet Services Department (or whatever it’s called, where my husband works) is bringing in 600 people this year alone. That’s just for ONE department! Do you know how many areas there are in the Walmart home offices? Like 40 billion. Walmart employs a ton of people. I’m thinking this is a good thing.
However I will say that their apparel this year sucks. I am in desperate need of some new shirts and jeans and Walmart’s clothes make me want to cry. And then the prices for clothes everywhere else make me want to cry harder.
Comment #24 by KrisMay 28th, 2008 at 3:58 pmI got new glasses at Walmart, just today in fact. They weren’t cheap, either.
Comment #25 by Heather O.May 28th, 2008 at 4:00 pm“I’ve stood in line behind teenage moms paying with a WIC check and then her own father buying her walmart panties. Yuck!”
Again, the myriad assumptions wrong with this sentence make me feel sick inside. Teenage moms? WIC? Buying panties is now a crime? People on WIC don’t need underwear? The girl’s father must be financially able to afford formula if he can afford to buy his daughter underwear? If that teenage mom bought her panties at Gap Body would we feel better?
“I agree with the comment about the walmart image being the problem.”
Who made this comment? I sure hope my previous comment wasn’t mistaken for pro looking down our noses at those less financially blessed. Walmart image is not the problem. Image-conscious judgmental snobbery seems to be the problem.
At this point someone will jump on and tell me how awful I am.Just once I’d like someone to jump on and point out that the some of the other comments are dead wrong and simply mean.
Comment #26 by solMay 28th, 2008 at 4:10 pmWell, I’d like to agree with you on this one sol, but I have to go put some tomatoes in the ground. I’ll try to get back to it tomorrow.
Comment #27 by ResearcherMay 28th, 2008 at 4:24 pmsol, I will jump in and say that I agree with you. You do have a way with words, and I was waiting for you to pounce. If I had pounced, it would have been misunderstood, as I do not have your biting eloquence. And I meant that as a compliment.
Comment #28 by mellocelloMay 28th, 2008 at 4:49 pmsol
I’ll bite (I’ve already seriously pissed off one person this week, why not go for the gold).
You can scream all you want about how we are all judgemental elitest snobs for not shopping at Walmart, but you can not deny that Walmart does bring with it a certain image. I live in the South, and I lived in Arkansas for a year, which is serious Walmart country. I’ve seen really pretty, bright, clean, big, Walmart Supercenters (was there today in fact–see my above mention of getting glasses there, simply because I assumed it would be cheaper. It wasn’t. Dang it). But I’ve also driven in back southern country roads where there is nothing for miles until you come across a lone Walmart, seriously in the middle of nowhere. I finally came to realize what Walmart must mean to a lot of people. Without the bing smily face, people living around those lone Walmarts would have no where else to go. No-where. And even less money to spend if they could get anywhere.
But lone roads with run down Walmarts bring up images of poorer than average people, which, when you get right down to it, is precisely the demographic that Walmart was originally pitched to. I’m not saying that is the case now–I’m not poorer than average, and I still find myself in Walmart from time to time. Even if Walmart has come a long ways from it’s roots (in more ways then one), and even if Walmart is just responding to market forces (my husband’s argument about why Walmart is not evil), it still represents something that a lot of people don’t want to think about, which is poor quality. It might not be the best side of human nature, but you can’t deny it’s there.
But I agree that many comments here could be more charitable about people who shop at Walmart. Then again, the same could be said about most of us in most situations.
Comment #29 by Heather O.May 28th, 2008 at 5:28 pmI do have to say about WIC. I’m on wic currently and I’ve not needed panties, but my daughter has, and I’ve had to buy them, I hope that doesn’t affend anyone.
You really cannot live off of WIC food, it’s only a supplement, so unless someone also gets food stamps you still will have to purchase other food the old fashioned way.
I’ve often worried sometimes that people are gawking at me thinking how can she buy food and get WIC and I guess that reinfoces my fear that people don’t get it.
Comment #30 by SarahMay 28th, 2008 at 5:33 pmI hate Wal Mart. I don’t hate the people who shop there.
Comment #31 by The WizMay 28th, 2008 at 5:52 pmY’all need to go read this. Now.
Comment #32 by Tracy MMay 28th, 2008 at 5:55 pmTracy, have I told you lately how much I love you?
Sol-
One more thing–I think the crux of the post is that whatsherbucket felt deceived and manipulated. Although that’s marketing for ya….
Comment #33 by Heather O.May 28th, 2008 at 6:04 pmIt was funny to see this because I thought a lot about Wal-mart today. Someone from Wal-mart called me this morning.
Wal-mart Woman: “Hi, do you still work with the X elementary PTA?
Pmom: “Yes . . .?”
WW: “Oh good, because we have a check for you.”
Pmom: “You do?” [Last fall, I sent out a bunch of fundraising letters asking for help with ice cream and toppings so that we could do a social for the elementary kids who entered the Reflections Program (an art program sponsored by the PTA).
WW: “Yes, I have to apologize. I guess there was some kind of snafu, because we have had the check sitting in our safe for months!”
Pmom: “Wow, well, I’m sure we could still use it. We do Reflections every year.”
WW: “Great! Well, it’s for $500.”
I was stunned. I was hoping for maybe at most $50 worth of food for the party. I went and picked up the check. Yep, not $50, not $500 in store credit, but $500 in actual money. The woman who gave it to me was very nice. While we waited for the manager to unlock the safe she mentioned that they have a fundraiser at the registers for Primary Children’s medical center, and they are worried because no one is donating this year.
Now, I’m not really in the Walmart demographic, and I generally prefer Target. But, by their fruits ye shall know them. I understand that a lot of Walmart’s “fruits” are regrettable, but I, for one, am very, very impressed with their community generosity.
Also, I think Sol’s point is important. It is one thing to dislike Wal-mart because of the effects it has on local businesses (and therefore families), and it’s a totally different thing to dislike Wal-mart because it’s not “my kind of store” or because “my kind of people” don’t shop there. It becomes classist, possibly even racist. And that is shameful. Reflecting on hints of those shameful thoughts in myself almost makes me feel like I should try to go out of my way to shop at Wal-mart to exorcise those unworthy feelings. The parents of my daughter’s less well-off classmates are not too good to shop there, and I shouldn’t be either.
Comment #34 by Pmom @ Chocolate and GarlicMay 28th, 2008 at 6:12 pmI’m going to have to say, I don’t hate Walmart. But I don’t love it either. We live in Maryland outside of DC and our Walmart is close enough to walk to, in a very nice neighborhood, but the place is a dump. Always crap on pallets in the aisles and everything jumbled and out of place so I avoid it because the messiness annoys me. But there are some conveniences about it that I do like - like they have a fabric section where if I need, I can run in and grab a thing of elastic for cheap, or I can take my 3-year-old’s glasses in and get them adjusted at the optical place there instead of driving to her optician 20 minutes away every couple of days.
I happen to not be poor, but I really am frugal and do love cheap prices, so that is another appeal - though I don’t feel like I have to buy a piece of junk just because it is cheap, even if my heart goes pitter patter when I see those little red clearance tags at Target, which happens to be my happy place because it is so bright and clean and nice feeling.
Anyway, this is really jumbled, so I’ll end by saying that I have so little room in my mind for things I need to be doing and thinking about and worrying aboutbut that there doesn’t seem to be space enough left for being upset about people’s spending habits and lame do-dads carried at Walmart or Target or any of the other big chains.
Comment #35 by MaryMay 28th, 2008 at 6:15 pmwhatsherbucket is not too good to shop there. Please. She hates their business practices and the way they destroy local businesses and treat their employees.
I don’t know HOW this got into a WIC discussion.
I’m too tired to engage. laters.
Comment #36 by The WizMay 28th, 2008 at 6:16 pmI hate shopping at Wal-Mart simply because of the feel of the stores. I hate most grocery stores for the same reason. I don’t hate shopping at Target. It’s a layout/lighting thing, and Wal-Mart’s just sucks. Also, I’ve had much better luck with Target’s clothing not falling apart.
On the other hand, when we lived in Puerto Rico last year I loved Wal-Mart. It was about the only place to shop within an hour of where we were. I could buy groceries, supplies, toys for my kids, diapers, swim diapers and pool floaties there. It was wonderful. I even bought my computer there (yes, the laptop I am currently typing on). My laptop died, and being in the middle of nowhere in a place I couldn’t speak the language, my computer and the internet kept me from completely losing it. I couldn’t wait a couple of weeks to order a new computer, so I went to Wal-Mart that day and bought one, and I was so happy that I could.
Of course, I never shop at Wal-Mart now, mostly because they aren’t that conveniently located for me now, and also because they don’t sell any food that my kids can eat. It will amaze you how much you can afford to spend on groceries when you don’t have any other choice.
Comment #37 by VadaMay 28th, 2008 at 6:23 pmI hate their business practices too. And I KNOW whatsherbucket is not classist or elitist in any way.
I think most of the posters here have a point- and like most things online, we can’t define tone from content in a blog blurb- if we were all sitting around my living room, we would be having a polite discussion.
Someone mentioned WIC, and I felt impressed to link to my other writing- something I don’t usually do- but since I posted once upon a time that Voldemart and I were done, and then I found myself in, um, unanticipated circimstances, it seems a good thing.
Comment #38 by Tracy MMay 28th, 2008 at 6:23 pmI appreciate your WIC article that you wrote. Very well done.
Comment #39 by SarahMay 28th, 2008 at 6:53 pmYikes–just to clarify–I didn’t mean to say that Whatserbucket thinks she is too good to shop at Walmart or that Whatserbucket is classist or racist. I don’t know Whatserbucket. I do know that when I had less money, I used to be incredibly grateful for Walmart. As my financial circumstances have improved, I have come to like Walmart less–and I worry that sometimes MY reasons might be classist or racist, or that I might think *I* am too good to shop at Walmart. And that troubles me about myself, if that makes sense.
[Over the past few years, I have also concurrently spent more time thinking about the negative effect that Walmart has on small business, but this is a completely different point. These sort of thoughts are not a shameful reason for avoiding Walmart.]
I just think it is important to recognize that Wal-mart is bad (for example, making it harder for people to own their own businesses) and also good (for example, offering $4 prescriptions or donating $500 to my child’s elementary school when I was hoping for a few tubs of ice cream). Walmart isn’t evil like Voldemort, but it isn’t pure and perfectly good either (drat, no pop culture references for pure and perfectly good spring to mind). Obviously, the good has to be balanced against the bad. I’m still figuring out where the good/bad balance lands for me in terms of whether I patronize Wal-mart or not.
In the plus column, the Walmart woman I talked with was clearly a caring individual, proud to work for a business that contributes so generously to schools and hospitals in our community. Nothing wrong with that. Further, I don’t see some nefarious plot behind Wal-mart’s donation to our local elementary school. Wal-mart’s campaign to get the U.S. to use more compact fluorescent bulbs is also a good thing, I think–even if it didn’t originate out of green motives.
Wal-mart’s moves to make itself more socially acceptable will always be a good thing–as long as consumers want good things. Of course, there’s an entry in the negative column. Sometimes we consumers don’t want truly good things. Sometimes we just want quantities of stuff and we don’t care how it is made or who makes it or under what conditions or what the circumstances of the workers who ring it up for us are. Yep, that’s definitely one for the negative column.
“Wal-mart: good or bad?” is just too simple.
Comment #40 by Pmom @ Chocolate and GarlicMay 28th, 2008 at 7:18 pmPmom- we’re pretty much in agreeance.
Comment #41 by Tracy MMay 28th, 2008 at 7:55 pmI don’t judge wal-mart on the ethics issues–but I can’t shop there because their food quality is lousy in my neck of the woods and I always leave with a massive headache after waiting in a long line to buy my stuff.
Comment #42 by Emily CMay 28th, 2008 at 8:10 pmI shop at Wal-Mart. The employees all know me. No amount of moral outrage is going to stop Wal-Mart because their customers can’t really afford to care enough to boycott.
In addition to having less money than average, I also volunteer with Girl Scouts. Wal-Mart is the best in terms of community giving. They allow our girls to sell cookies in front of the store which increases the girls’ profits and their activities. They donate products for their activities and they donate to the girls’ schools.
Target doesn’t. And they’re not nice about it. In fact, having canvased nearly every large store in the area for places for our city’s 50 troops to sell cookies, I can say that Target is rip-roaringly pissy about turning the Girl Scouts (and everyone else) down. I shop there as rarely as possible.
Comment #43 by JamiMay 28th, 2008 at 8:48 pmWhen we lived in England and everything was SO expensive and we had such a hard time going to every little shop for every little thing, I wished like crazy that we could have had a Wal-Mart there, especially since we were poor grad students and we just wanted a cheap plastic hamper for a cheap, cheap price (and a gazillion other cheap things to use just for the limited time we were there). Wal-Mart has its value, that’s for sure.
The thing that I hate is that when Wal-Mart first came out, they were really high in customer service, cleanliness, organization, etc. They had every lane open at check out time, and they took anything back that scanned into their computer. Now they are just cheap. They have terrible customer service, 20 minute waits to check out, and you can never find an employee to help. It’s sad, but I still have a list of things that I will not buy anywhere else because they are so much cheaper at Wal-Mart, especially their Equate line of toiletries. But I go there as infrequently as possible because I HATE that place, especially when I am pregnant and can’t walk through huge stores and pass out trying to wait in their long lines.
But whatserbucket, I have to admit that I saw an ad for “Canopy” furniture in “Better Homes and Gardens” magazine and was totally sucked in until I saw that it was Wal-
Comment #44 by Rachel WMay 28th, 2008 at 9:19 pmMart brand stuff. Then I knew that it was just cheap junk despite their best efforts at marketing. They have earned their cheap image and will probably pay for it when they realize that they can’t win new customers no matter how pottery-barnish their little fliers look.
Certainly Walmart is a valued source of food and goods for many people who would otherwise be unable to get by at all. That said, I think that Walmart is at least partially responsible for causing the poverty/low wages that makes it necessary to shop there.
Comment #45 by StarfoxyMay 28th, 2008 at 10:10 pmHeather,
“You can scream all you want about how we are all judgemental elitest snobs for not shopping at Walmart,”
I wasn’t screaming. When I scream it will get caught in your naughty word filter.
“but you can not deny that Walmart does bring with it a certain image.”
I didn’t deny that. What I object to is the seeming condemnation of that image. So what if people are “backwoods” or whatever else? Why the tone of disgust? I know you believe the best about whatsherbucket’s intent. I think the tone of the post speaks for itself. There is no disguising the contempt of things low class and the sense of her feeling almost violated at having mistakingly considered WalMart furnishings desirable. She is bothered that tasteful and WalMart mingled in her brain. I find the attitude revolting.
Peace out. Oh, and if you want to piss me off you are going to have to try seriously harder than that. I don’t think you have it in you to be closed-minded and ignorant. That is the stuff that pisses me off.
Comment #46 by solMay 28th, 2008 at 10:32 pmI’m not so sure it was considering Wal Mart desirable that was the problem. When I see WM’s name on something, I just know, really know, it’s going to suck and be disposable. Their products are made poorly, of poor materials, and seldom last through a season.
I’m all for buying name brand things for less at WM, but seeing a pretty catalog with things portrayed nicely, then seeing the WM name, would take the air out of my sails, and any excitement about purchasing something from said pretty catalog. NOT because I’m a snob- but because I know it’s going to be crap, no matter how prettily it’s photographed.
Comment #47 by Tracy MMay 28th, 2008 at 11:24 pmAgain, I’m not arguing that. I’m wondering what that has to do with people who eat pork rinds.
Comment #48 by solMay 29th, 2008 at 12:08 amI was recently given a Walmart gift card for my birthday. I usually don’t shop at our local Walmart because it is in a creepy neighborhood and therefore has less-than-stellar customers. It can be scary of there! But I had no choice, it was either shop at Walmart or throw my 50 dollar birthday money in the trash. I don’t have a major problem with Walmart. It’s just in a scary neighborhood here.
Comment #49 by apple pieMay 29th, 2008 at 4:29 amBTW, Ikea in the areas it overlaps Wal-Mart is a little less expensive, has a bit better quality.
Worth a visit.
Comment #50 by Stephen M (Ethesis)May 29th, 2008 at 5:44 amIntended main points of my post:
- I dislike Walmart. I do not enjoy being in Wal-Mart stores. I abhor many of their business practices (yes those business practices are present in many other retail chains to one degree or another).
- Wal-Mart is a southern based discount chain that provides items like porkrinds to its main demographic. It was a toss-up for me between pork rinds and boiled peanuts but I figured more people knew what pork rinds were. The “hostile negotiating” part of that sentence was my main post but clearly the pig skins as comic relief masked that.
- Wal-Mart has not, to my knowledge, been historically associated with “designer” or “upscale” products. Seeing them market themselves in this way was both surprising and disorienting to me.
- For me and mine, avoidance of Wal-Mart has been a worthwhile (albeit somewhat more expensive) endeavor.
- Avoiding Wal-Mart is increasingly difficult when they present themselves as something other/more than a big box.
Points I feel I either did not make or did not intend to make:
Comment #51 by whatserbucketMay 29th, 2008 at 6:11 am- I have a problem with people who eat pork rinds.
- I have a problem with the people who shop and/or work at Wal-Mart
- I have a particular aversion to people of low socioeconomic status and find their spending habits exclusively repulsive (to this I might add that I find gold plated toilet seats and $350,000 cars even MORE objectionable but that wasn’t the topic of the post).
- I have never struggled financially, I am not struggling financially now, and have no frame of reference whatsoever to those who are currently struggling financially.
Also:
“Certainly Walmart is a valued source of food and goods for many people who would otherwise be unable to get by at all. That said, I think that Walmart is at least partially responsible for causing the poverty/low wages that makes it necessary to shop there.”
Very well said, #45
Comment #52 by whatserbucketMay 29th, 2008 at 6:14 amI’ll give Walmart this. If I have to take something back I sure as heck hope it’s back to Walmart and not to Target. Target’s return policy stinks.
As for quality at Walmart. I was able to purchase clothing at Gymboree this weekend for as little as $2.50 per clothing item, it will last way longer than any clothing at walmart. I’m still trying to convince my mother to quit buying the cheap walmart clothing for my kids since they don’t last but a few wears before they are stained (and yes I use stain spray)and falling apart. And even if I can’t find something clothing wise, quite as cheap as walmart, I’d rather spend a couple of extra bucks and get something that I don’t have to add to our rag pile after a few wears.
Comment #53 by SarahMay 29th, 2008 at 6:39 amWell, the tomatoes are in, the kids are off to school and the baby is nursing so I now have some luxury to think about Wal-Mart at great length, I’m sure.
We have a Wal-Mart in our semi-suburban, semi-rural township. Every other store except small groceries are about half an hour away and over the past year I have not had the luxury of spending that amount of time. Therefore, I shop at Wal-Mart.
Here are some random observations.
1. Low prices are much more important to Wal-Mart than quality. This has very mixed results. On some things they hold quality and raise price. On other things they hold the price and lower quality.
Let’s talk about socks. I used to buy socks at Wal-Mart. They worked as well as anything else and were generally a little cheaper. Now for the same price as I used to pay, I can get thin scratchy socks that drive the children batty and wear out quickly.
On the other hand, their generic pharmaceuticals are much better quality than the generic brands I can get at any other place. They’ve held the line on quality there. (So far.)
2. We were recently talking about Wal-Mart on my online heart support group. Someone said that whenever they took their baby to Wal-Mart, people tried to touch the baby. Other people chimed in that they’ve had the same thing happen. (Our babies with their heart conditions are usually kept out of public but sometimes you have to go out with them for medications or something.) Since I’ve been sensitized to the touching-babies thing, I’ve noticed the same thing at Wal-Mart and I’ve kept the baby away.
The only other place that I have a problem with people wanting to touch my baby is church and I skipped it for over half a year for that reason.
What conclusions can we draw about the demographics of Wal-Mart employees and shoppers (and church members) because of the baby-touching danger? Do they share some sort of lack of insight into how their behavior could affect other people? It may be a stretch to say that the same people who buy a lot of cheap Chinese plastics and run up the trade deficit and deplete the world petroleum reserves little by little on trashy party favors and shoddy toys and cheap appliances and shoes that have to be replaced frequently are also the public baby touchers, but what other conclusion can I reach?
I’m not saying that people should not be able to buy everything they need and some of the things they want, even if they’re on minimum wage or WIC or foodstamps, but I think that a lot of people buy a lot of things they do not need and can’t possibly want. (The bunny vacuum cover for example.)
3. Not everything is cheaper at Wal-Mart. That one essential of life, toilet paper, is always cheaper at the grocery store.
4. I don’t like the time that Wal-Mart takes. Last year my mom was here and we were driving back from the doctors or something and she needed a power strip for running a laptop. She said, I’ll run into Wal-Mart and be out in five minutes. I told her it would be fifteen. She scoffed, but sure enough, fifteen minutes later she emerged, looking dazed, with a power strip in her hand.
5. I disagree with a number of the points made in The Socialist Worker article (comment 2), but I do agree that a company should either reimburse their employees sufficiently and provide decent medical benefits or let them unionize. “What mean ye that ye beat my people to pieces, and grind the faces of the poor? saith the Lord GOD of hosts.”
6. There is at least one company that makes immense profits, provides quality products at low prices, compensates its employees fairly, provides medical benefits and even lets its employees sit down while ringing up sales. It’s called Aldi and I shop there as much as I can. And the people there don’t touch my baby and it’s on the way home from the cardiologist.
Sometimes there are options, sometimes there are not. Wal-Mart has become so pervasive in our society that we have to deal with its influence whether we like it or not.
Comment #54 by ResearcherMay 29th, 2008 at 7:03 amWhat is this Aldi you speak of? I have never seen such a thing.
Comment #55 by CoffinberryMay 29th, 2008 at 7:16 amResearcher I love Aldi too. It’s just one smart store!!! The quality is excellent and the prices are absolutely wonderful. I actually like that I don’t have to pick through thousands upon thousands of items, they have the basics and it’s wonderful.
the only bummer part of Aldi, is there hours aren’t always easy for me, to get there. (worse than costco, sams club hours). When we only had one car, that we shared, it was darn near impossible unless I left in the middle of dinner. Oh and one other tiny bummer part, is they don’t do WIC, only because they limit the items they carry so WIC becomes impossible.
Aldi has done a darn good job at figuring out how to keep prices down without driving other’s out of business.
Comment #56 by SarahMay 29th, 2008 at 7:24 amYou must live in the west. It’s in Europe and the eastern US and Midwest. It’s the same company that owns Trader Joes.
Comment #57 by ResearcherMay 29th, 2008 at 7:26 amI’ve been so confused each time someone mentioned Aldi. In my mission it was definitely where we shopped cheap, but had to be careful because much of the food was expired or almost expired. The produce was generally half rotten and the meat was too scary to think about. It was like they got the food from a hijacked semi or another store’s dumpster. But missionaries are poor and finding a luxury like a can of frosting for $.50 can make your week. you also had to “rent” the shopping cart for a quarter. Funny. Must be different or new and improved Aldi.
Comment #58 by solMay 29th, 2008 at 7:37 amSo I just checked out their website. Same logo. Same locations I used to shop as a missionary. Totally different store. You really missed out if you didn’t see the old Aldi.
Comment #59 by solMay 29th, 2008 at 7:42 amEnd threadjack.
I’ve been as confused as you, Sol, because I too shopped at Aldi on my mission, and it was not someplace I would ever set foot in under any other circumstance. I’ve never tasted such bad food as came out of that store.
Comment #60 by eljeeMay 29th, 2008 at 7:59 amSee? This just proves that companies can change their image. I agree that walmart stuff does seem not as trendy and awesome as Targets, but if they are trying to change that, and make better quality, then more power to them, I say. I am one of those people that wishes I could afford to shop at Whole foods for groceries and the mall for my clothing, but I shop at walmart and sometimes target (if I can splurge), because…well…I live MY life, and not someone else’s. But Whole Foods….mmmmmmmm, yum, yum, yum. And it’s SO not fair that we don’t have either a trader joe’s or an Ikea out here. Sigh.
Comment #61 by mellocelloMay 29th, 2008 at 8:07 amHow curious. We shopped at Aldi as missionaries and the products were just fine. We’ve shopped at the store for the past three-four years and everything is as good as brand name if not better. There are two different branches of the store owned by two brothers and both operated under the “Aldi” name. I’ve never shopped at the other type which could possibly explain differences in quality.
Comment #62 by ResearcherMay 29th, 2008 at 8:20 amWe have a good ALDI. Only had a problem once with one watermelon and they took it back and gave us a new one. Never had a problem with meat, ever. We live in Missouri near Liberty.
Comment #63 by SarahMay 29th, 2008 at 8:24 am#62- That may be it- Two different stores. But the same logo? Too confusing. You would know if you were shopping in the Aldi I’m speaking of. Seriously, gross. Still, they must have done an overhaul because there is a nice Aldi listed at the same address as the gross Aldi I frequented in my first area.
Comment #64 by solMay 29th, 2008 at 8:40 amHere’s to image/product overhaul!
By the way, thanks for the discussion, whatserbucket…much of the rest of the bloggernacle seems to be imploding. Or something.
Comment #65 by ResearcherMay 29th, 2008 at 8:54 amThanks for reminding me I needed to call and get my daughter’s contact prescription mailed from the WalMart vision center. I love Wally World, but I totally get why people hate it—it’s totally messy and crazy, but I think I like the challenge. Plus, I love a bargain. I love thrift stores too, but I understand why people hate them as well. Then again, I’ve never been one to be motivated by politics.
Comment #66 by JewelsMay 29th, 2008 at 9:13 am#65,
much of the rest of the bloggernacle seems to be imploding. Or something.
No kidding. Been to FMH recently? Hol-E-cow.
Comment #67 by mellocelloMay 29th, 2008 at 9:20 amKnow what I hate more than WalMarts abhorrent labor/insurance/corporate policy? No paper bags!!! Seriously, the only thing good about the plastic bags is since it takes 94 of them to get my stuff in, I never have to worry about what to take with me when I walk my dog. Heaven forbid you have to reconstruct the lazy susan of plastic bags to make room for recycle-able (is that a word?) paper bags. ARGH!!!
Comment #68 by ShannonMay 29th, 2008 at 9:34 amNever thought of the paper bag problem. They often have coackroach eggs in them so I never get them.
Comment #69 by SarahMay 29th, 2008 at 9:38 am#69:
Comment #70 by mellocelloMay 29th, 2008 at 9:40 amWha? Seriously?!
If you really want to mess with their world bring your reusable bags. It is hilarious, if you’re in the right kind of mood.
Comment #71 by JamiMay 29th, 2008 at 9:47 amI love WalMart! We have 2 in town here, and they are both clean and organized and nice. One of them is “fancier,” but doesn’t carry about 1/3 of the stuff that the other one does, so I only go to that one if I’m sure that they will have everything on my list.
Are you sure that Trader Joe’s and Aldi are related??
Comment #72 by StrollerbladerMay 29th, 2008 at 9:53 amPS: As to Walmart’s health care, if not for them we’d be paying for my $65,000 baby and my own $20,000 doctor bills out of our own pocket. As it stands we only owe $5K. Phew!!
Comment #73 by KrisMay 29th, 2008 at 10:02 amWalmart’s slogan should be, ‘Hey, at least we’re not K-mart”.
I didn’t know the bloggernacle was imploding. Dear me, where have I been?
Comment #74 by Heather O.May 29th, 2008 at 10:12 amI tried to put in a link which didn’t come through, but you can google “trader joe’s aldi” and read the businessweek articles about their business practices.
One note: we don’t eat canned peas.
Comment #75 by ResearcherMay 29th, 2008 at 10:13 amHave you guys seen the BIG reusable bags at Costco? You get three for $3.50 and they hold a TON of stuff. I take them everywhere.
Bloggernacle implode? DO elaborate!
Comment #76 by solMay 29th, 2008 at 10:29 amSol,
Comment #77 by mellocelloMay 29th, 2008 at 10:49 amwell, I don’t frequent many blogs, except this one and FMH, and it has been crazy over there. So I don’t know about the others. at FMH It’s just lots of contention. Way more than usual. I couldn’t take it anymore, so I stopped reading an commenting. Thank goodness for MMW! It’s nice here. Even when it’s a little snarky, it’s still nice
Our K-Mart is a joke. The aisles are full of product on pallets, the shelves have no product on them, and there appear to be two employees working in the store, neither one of them covering the check-out line.
Comment #78 by LindsayMay 29th, 2008 at 10:54 amI am fortunate to live in two different areas of the U.S. right now–Seattle in the summer, and Dallas in the winter. In both places there is a vast array of convenient stores, and I usually visit many different ones over the course of a month or so. But wherever I am, at home or on the road, I shop at Wal-Mart for certain basic items which are usually cheaper there.
Having shopped at Wal-marts in a dozen or more states over the years, I can see why people have different opinions on their appearance and customer service. The new Supercenters have wide aisles, excellent lighting, and usually not very long lines. Some of the older stores are very crowded, messy and have long lines much of the time.
I agree that the quality of many items is not high. But national brand name merchandise is usually the same wherever it is sold (although Wal-mart is apt to carry mostly the cheaper models of electronics, furniture, etc). And my daughter claims that Wal-mart disposable diapers are equally as good as the more expensive brands. I may be beyond the days when we had to pinch every penny, but I still look for bargains, and if the Wal-Mart lamp looks as good on my fine quality end table as one costing ten times as much, I’m happy!
There have also been comments on Wal-Mart’s employment policy, wages, etc. I have noticed that they often employ people who might have difficulty getting jobs elsewhere due to age, or various physical or mental “challenges.” Just yesterday I spoke to the mother of a man in his 30’s who had difficulties holding a job, and had been ill treated by previous employers. He has now been very happy working at a local Wal-mart for the past year. She said that everyone loves him, he is always treated courteously by other employees (”Please” & “Thank you” instead of commands), and the manager has made it clear that he is valued. He earns a low wage, but it is enough for him to contribute to living expenses in the house he shares with his mother. From what I know, management positions pay well, and entry level jobs pay the going rate in a given location. That is why people line up to work there when a new Wal-Mart opens.
Re: the Debbie Shank story. Perhaps few people have heard that Wal-Mart dropped their suit after the media provoked public outrage. Even though their case seems to have full legal merit in my opinion, they finally realized the need to take into account special cases. This has been a public relations disaster for them, as witnessed by the comments on this thread. (I didn’t notice that anyone felt that the lawyers who were paid over half the $1,000,000 settlement should reduce their fees to help Mrs. Shank. What the trucking company paid was more than enough to repay Wal-Mart’s insurance fund, and leave a trust fund for Ms. Shank’s continued care.)
Re: recyclable bags. I second the comments about them above. I take my own cloth ones, which can be purchased at many stores now for a dollar or less. Wal-Mart was giving one of them to each customer a couple of months ago in Dallas. I understand dog owners and parents of small babies need the plastic ones, but for the rest of us, cloth bags hold a lot more and are easier to carry!
Comment #79 by RoAnnMay 29th, 2008 at 11:16 amI really don’t like Walmart (even though our Supercenter is better than other stores I’ve been in). However, Walmart is the ONLY non-grocery store in my town. With gas approaching $4 a gallon, it’s just not feasible to drive the 45 minutes to shop anywhere else.
My biggest complaints about Walmart are the long lines, the checkers who are as slow as molasses, and the fact that they always seem to be out of what I need and don’t get around to re-stocking very often. I can go to Walmart every day for several days and they still won’t have restocked the shelves with whatever it is that I’m needing. Also, at least in our store, many of the employees seem to be rather unkempt–there are LOTS of employees that look like they barely managed to run a comb through their hair before they left for work, and sometimes not even that. They look like they don’t even care. And that makes the store look like it doesn’t care.
Comment #80 by eljeeMay 29th, 2008 at 12:09 pmSorry for making the comment about the bloggernacle imploding and then disappearing for the afternoon. Mellocello explained it nicely.
A few observations. During the about 8 months that I’ve been reading and commenting, there has not been a point where I’ve been so ready to stop reading the other big blogs. T&S seems to have some attrition right now with staff and comments. BCC seems to be leaning more toward the “damu” (unfortunate acronym) direction than it does normally. FMH can always be contentious but it’s even more so.
Maybe it’s a seasonal thing. Maybe it’s just a normal interlude and I’m not used to it. Maybe the original organizing forces of the sites have said what they wanted to say. (There are only so many times you can say that JS was a polygamist. After a while it’s old news.) Maybe it’s a natural reaction to the sustained and emotional Romney and FLDS and MMM stories being largely over.
Who knows. Like mellocello said, at least MMW is here and we can discuss our shopping preferences and jeans selections. On the FMH sidebar it says “FMH is my RS.” I don’t feel that connection to them although I’ve commented there, but the other day I was feeling like “MMW is my RS” since I haven’t had much of a connection to my own RS over the past difficult year. Thanks ladies. (Wipes a tear from her eye.)
Oh, and I’ll say something about Wal-Mart so this isn’t a total threadjack. Wal-Mart used to have a really good distribution and stocking system but they’ve gotten a little lax in the last few years and you can’t rely on things being on the shelf like you could ten years ago.
Comment #81 by ResearcherMay 29th, 2008 at 1:45 pmI have the giant Costco bags sol mentioned- they rock. They are HUGE, and each of my kids can sit in one. The only problem? If you pack them up, you can’t life them!
It does confuse the WM employees when you give them your cloth bags- some can roll with it, some are baffled. One of the cashiers as WM told me the turnover at the registers was so high because they drug test- and if you see the same cashier for more than 6 weeks, you know they passed thier drug tests!
Regarding the Nacle implosion- part of it IS seasonal. There are sites (not naming names!) that I avoid because of contention. There are other sites I positively love- and yes, I’m biased.
Comment #82 by Tracy MMay 29th, 2008 at 2:13 pmWalmart is always my last resort. I just cannot handle the crowds, the unorganized shelves, the produce is usually tossed all over the floors and for the most part, the Orem Walmart is filthy. I dread going in there just to save a couple bucks. Definitely not worth the headache nor the stress, IMO.
Sherry
Comment #83 by SherryMay 29th, 2008 at 9:05 pmhttp://andthesearethedaysofourlives.blogspot.com/
Wow quite the discussion. I am a fence sitter on this one, enough said.
Comment #84 by jendoopMay 30th, 2008 at 2:55 amI do love your writing style here-
You got me at: “Now before you jump my crap and wave the whatserbucket is an elitist bee-yotch who deserves to be locked in Sams Club for life flag..”
Having been a student at BYU, I can say that the Orem Wal-Mart is a mess because of all the students. They don’t care. They are lazy (and by lazy I mean leave stuff on a shelf where it doesn’t belong because they change their mind). I’ve done this. I feel bad. But Wal-Mart does treat their employees badly. Four family members of mine have worked there. Only one still does. Mostly because her husband doesn’t have a steady job right now, and she’s worked there for as long as I can remember. I don’t know anyone that actually enjoys working for Wal-Mart, and this includes a Welfare mom that I know. As for me, I try not to shop there, I have found that many other stores are competitive in their prices. I like Winco for my food. I just don’t like having to make seperate stops for food, clothes, etc. Wal-Mart does have that going for it.
Comment #85 by LeslieJune 5th, 2008 at 8:05 pm[…] So I’ve been really having a hard time writing lately. I don’t feel very quippy and my summer thus far has been pretty “eh”. Mostly busy busy stuff that MIGHT be interesting for individual posts but I just don’t know if I have it in me right now. Since summer is all about the lazy, I’m gonna wrap it all up in one glob for you. Just for giggles I’ll even bullet point the random crap from the past month or so: - No fun trips, in fact, no weekends where Daddio wasn’t working at least one of the weekend days. Bleecchhk. - The weather has been pretty nice, only one week where the heat/humidity was “bad”. In fact, there was even a nice cool-ish week thrown in that really spoke to me. - Kiddo’s best friend moved away. Like far away. Like 2,245 miles far. It’s been tough. Don’t get me started. - Potty training is creeping into my house. - I had a little surgery. I think I’ll post about this all on its own though so I can gross you out with pictures so you can get the full effect. Suffice it to say, you shouldn’t neglect the SPF this summer. Embrace having healthy skin and avoid the draw to be golden. - I attended a funeral this morning. It was a nice service. It just never is easy, is it? Hopefully the copious amounts of food provided can ease the mourning a bit. - The hole in the wall of the room I’m sitting in has been here for two years now. Somehow of all the fix-it projects to tackle, this hole taunts me the most. A substantial amount of that taunting is because I created the hole myself. It started with a mushy spot at the bottom corner of the window and I chipped away at it to see how far the moisture extended. Pretty far. After hanging out of the window in my climbing harness to caulk the living crap out of it (oh, hey neighbor!) and doing everything humanly possible -short of replacing the window- to fix and/or slow the water seepage, the hole is ready to be repaired. I think. The taunting continues. - I’m looking into preschools in my area. We visit one this week and I think it’s my pick. This place is close, cheap, and reportedly decent. Kiddo doesn’t need to be smarter, he just needs to ummm…“polish his social skills”. - Both Daddio and I got “big” callings at church. I contend that our poor ward is just really scraping the barrel at this point. This summer’s turnover was like 40% of active families leaving. Ouch. Does anyone else’s ward ebb and flow so drastically? - I got 9 books about Wal-Mart from the library and have read 4 and a half of them. And no, not all of the books were rabidly “anti”. The last one I finished could have been written by Sam Walton’s ghost for all I could tell. My opinion of the company has not changed a lot, but I feel much more informed and the history of the company really is fascinating. They have truly reshaped the face of retail around the world. Only one of the books so far would, in my opinion, tip the scales as a blatantly inflammatory publication. I’ve really enjoyed the reads, though. The one I’m currently reading seems more balanced than the previous three, but I’m only a quarter of the way through it. - I fixed the lawnmower. Twice. The first repair was a broken pull cord, which was remedied by disassembling the mower and reattaching the now slightly shorter pull string to the housing it coils in. It took three take apart put together cycles to get the spring thing sprung and retracting correctly, but ultimately I did it. The second repair was the cracked and leaking fuel line that I discovered while I had it apart fixing the pull string (a-ha so THAT’S why the gas smell is so strong!). Kiddo (male, 3rs old) and I headed to the home center to get replacement parts and, our quest being successful, we busted out the tools. One last “take-apart” and we put that sucker right in. Then we secured it with the new clamps we got – the exact replacement of the old clamps was not available so we took a chance faking it with an alternative and it worked!. I now know right off the top of my head which size sockets and which screwdrivers are necessary to take apart a TORO GTS-XL 21” mulching mower. Can I just say my mower has never run better AND I saved at least 100 bucks doing it myself. Ladies, pick up your tools and reject being subject to greasy repair people preying on you and/or nagging a man to help you! Well, maybe the Wiz should just cough up the hundred bucks because apparently her spatial skills aren’t that hot (you know I love you, dude… but we all have our limits). […]
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