By Heather O.
So, I went to the eye doctor again this week for like the 254,689th time in my life. He had a new pair of contacts for me, a new glasses prescription, and a nifty new gadget he wanted to play with that takes pictures of my retina without having to dilate my eyes. I popped my contacts in, saw neat pictures of my optic nerve (yeah, have YOU seen YOUR optic nerve? Mine’s prettier), and stopped in at the optical shop to look for some glasses that wouldn’t make me look, well, lame.
I sighed as a looked at the rows and rows of “contemporary” glasses, “stylish” glasses, “youth”, “women’s” and “brand name” glasses. (Seriously, can anybody name a brand name of glasses of the top of their head?) I have distinct memories of doing this as a kid, except instead of choosing square framed specs that make me look like an East Coast intellectual, I was choosing bubblegum pink frames with coke-bottle lenses that gave my face a stretched, distorted quality. It was a look, a LOOK, I tell you, and a darned fetching one. Yup, you better believe that I was a SMOKIN’ twelve year old.
Luckily for me and those who would actually like to look at a human instead of a bug eyed freak during conversation, technology, both in contacts and glasses wear, has improved greatly since I couldn’t see the spelling list on the board in Ms. Hayden’s second grade class. The optician even used the word “aspherocity” while discussing my options with me, and you just can’t help but look at a man with a little bit of reverence after he utters such a 5 dollar word.
But aspherocity aside, there are still come cute frames that are denied me, because I’m just too freakin’ blind. My lenses are too thick, my myopia too extreme. So I settled for a frame that the optician said was PERFECT for me and especially complimented my eye color. Whatever. Just tell me how much I owe you so I can go home.
As he was adding everything up (MAN glasses are pricey, even the “off brand” ones), he saw me sigh the heavy sigh of a woman who knows her eyesight depends on a few flimsly frames, some plastic and…um… that stuff that contacts are made of (what is that stuff, anyway?). He said, “Cheer up. It’s been proven that extreme myopia is linked with high intelligience.”
I looked at him, considering this info.
I said,”It’s probably just genetic, right? I mean, myopia is genetic, and so is intelligience, so they might not be really linked at all. People are smart and nearsighted because their parents were smart and nearsighted.”
He shrugged and said, “Well, they don’t really know why they are linked, but they very much are.”
Well, okay then, Aspherocity Dude. I’ll take you at your word.
But when I left, I felt some sort of small victory. Over the years, it’s not just that my eyes have been getting worse and worse. If what Aspherocity Dude said was true, my brain has just been getting bigger and bigger.
At this rate, however, I fear it may explode.
Anybody else have deep rooted glasses trauma? ‘Cause if you do, welcome to the coke-bottle genius club. Maybe we should do T-shirts.




I don’t have experience with super thick glasses, just super HUGE glasses! I was looking through some old pics from 20 years ago and saw myself with glasses that covered my whole cheeks, down to the top of my mouth! I’m sure I’m not loved that much because nobody told me what a dork I looked like! I just think I made them look better next to me!
Comment #1 by tamalamaMay 29th, 2008 at 1:48 pmOh, Heather, you and me both! I still have nightmares of being dragged into the optometrist’s shop at age 7 (and 8 and 9 and 10 and 11 and … never-you-mind) and plunked down in a chair. One after another some salesman would shove empty frames on my nose, and tell me to look in the mirror and decide which ones looked best on me.
As if I could see the mirror through empty frames.
Things got a little better with contacts. At least I could see in three dimensions with contacts. Do you know, until I was 30-something, I loved the magic of Viewmaster reels, for the way they made people and things pop out from the background. Everything was beautiful that way, and I wondered why they didn’t make glasses that let you see like that all the time, just for fun. I honestly did not know, until 10 seconds after that first pair of contacts went in, that EVERYBODY ELSE SEES THAT WAY ALL THE TIME.
I will cheerful adopt your discovery of the link between intelligence and blind-as-a-bat-edness, and join the coke-bottle genius club.
Comment #2 by Ardis E. ParshallMay 29th, 2008 at 2:03 pmI can’t believe my mother let me go out in public in some of the glasses I wore as a child.
But every time I think they were bad, I can think about my husband and the glasses his parents kept buying for him. Think thick black plastic alternated with thick brown plastic. And I don’t mean Harry Potter stylish.
When we got our engagement picture taken, I made him take off his glasses for the photo. When we had our wedding reception, some of his ward members saw our engagement picture as they came in and almost turned around and left because they didn’t recognize him without those horrid glasses.
Comment #3 by ResearcherMay 29th, 2008 at 2:09 pmWhen I first got glasses, my dad got me two pairs. One pair I picked out and the other pair he picked out. My choice: pretty tortoise shell frames that only went 1/2 way down my face. My dad’s choice: Bright blue plastic frames. With the coke-bottle lenses. They were U.G.L.Y. And my dad made me wear them every single day, except for special occasions when I was allowed to wear the “pretty” glasses. Why? He was convinced that I was going to break/lose/set fire to my glasses and if that was going to happen, then by golly, it was going to happen to the cheap frames. I got teased unmercifully my entire sixth grade year, which coincidentally was the same year I got braces and I wisely chose the neon green rubber bands for them. Huge bright blue plastic framed coke-bottle glasses and neon green teeth…yeah, the guys couldn’t get enough of me.
Fortunately, I was allowed to get contacts 3 years later. But none of my family will ever let me forget about the blue frames. I’m glad all that suffering gets me a t-shirt. That makes it all worth it.
Comment #4 by fluffychickyMay 29th, 2008 at 2:13 pmCount me in the Coke Bottle Brigade. The other day, I used my last contact and had to dig my glasses out, and David came in the bathroom to see me, my nose about 3 inches from the countertop, searching for my glasses. Yes, I can’t see a foot in front of my face.
I must be brilliant too! Is it bad to hope my kids eyesight starts to go…?
Comment #5 by Tracy MMay 29th, 2008 at 2:18 pmBut what will be on the t shirt? I wear glasses even though I don’t have to. They don’t have a prescription. I have a too large for my face, italian style nose and the glasses make it a little bit less obvious. I know, I am the lamest person on earth and I will go crawl in a hole now. And be anon for this post.
Comment #6 by anonMay 29th, 2008 at 2:23 pm“If you can read this shirt, your eyesight’s better than mine.”
or
“Coke-bottle Genius”
or something else entirely–I’m interested to see people’s clever t-shirt ideas.
My vision’s not horrible, but my first pair of glasses (4th grade) were pretty bad. Pale translucent blue plastic frames, large and round and completely unflattering. I thought they were awesome for about a year. Now I can’t believe my mom let me get them.
Comment #7 by kaduseyMay 29th, 2008 at 2:39 pmI’m so blind without my contacts or glasses that my husband will sometimes make funny faces at me because he knows I can’t see his expressions from across the room. One time he thought I didn’t have my contacts in and I caught him making such a face. Sigh.
When I was pregnant last year, my eyes actually got a little better. Too bad they were even worse at this year’s check up than before I got pregnant.
Oh, and remember Becca from “Life Goes On”? I sported those same big, red, round frames. Oh yeah, I was awesome, I tell ya.
Can we make tote bags to go with our t-shirts?
Comment #8 by mrs. kMay 29th, 2008 at 2:43 pmha! I must be a genius! I am legally blind in one eye and after I had my baby my vision bottomed out in my other eye too (dang babies.)
The time is coming for me to get new glasses pretty soon. What an adventure that will be. At least I get free contacts now that my husband is going to work for one of their major distributors bwahahahhaa.
Comment #9 by KrisMay 29th, 2008 at 2:49 pmMy brain must be GINORMOUS, because I am totally blind. My contacts are 8.5 and 9. I don’t wear my glasses EVER because they are just horrible.
I’m giggling at the comments. I had no idea I was blind as a kid either. My fourth grade teacher turned me in to my mother, who dragged me to the eye doctor. I cried and threw a tantrum, insisting I did NOT need glasses - that was just CRAZY TALK. When they put the glasses on me, mid-teary eyed rant, I was like, “OH. WAIT A MINUTE. WOW. VISION IS COOL.”
Comment #10 by SueMay 29th, 2008 at 2:51 pmMy first pair of glasses were giant, I mean giant, perfectly circular plastic tortoiseshell frames. It was a sort of Alvin and the Chipmunks look - the chipmunk that wears those giant round glasses, I mean.
Comment #11 by meemsMay 29th, 2008 at 2:55 pmWell, the gorgeous pink frames with gold-tone earpieces and huge pink TINTED lenses were a good fashion choice for a nine-year-old, I think. But the unassuming brown frames with DARK BROWN tint…what was my mother thinking, allowing me to pick those? And what about the Sally Jessie Raphael huge, giant glasses in eighth grade–at least mine were green instead of red (like that’s better).
And don’t you love the upsell? “Ma’am, those glasses will be REALLY REALLY heavy in the regular lenses–but these (only $158 more!) will really feel feather-light on your nose.” No, thank you, I only want to have to donate MOST of the blood in my system to pay for this, not my first-born son as well. (Although some days…)
Can we put a giant fuzzy blob somewhat shaped like an “E” on our T-shirts? Because I don’t even see that anymore when they tell me to take off my glasses and look at the chart. (Chart? What chart?)
Comment #12 by KerynMay 29th, 2008 at 4:45 pm-8.5 is really bad? Oh man…
Comment #13 by Tracy MMay 29th, 2008 at 5:34 pmI just have to say that LASIK rocks. I had the whole “can’t even tell you HAVE facial features” eyesight thing and dh gave me LASIK for my birthday several years ago. So wonderful. Even better, because my head is so small that it was really hard to find frames that didn’t make me look like I had bug-eyes…although I guess that’s the style now, isn’t it?
Comment #14 by RorieMay 29th, 2008 at 5:41 pmOoooo ooooo Then I’m a genius too. (except that I just spelled genius wrong. Yes, I fixed it. Spell checker, just another reason I love fire-fox) Although lately I have been able to get the more expensive thinner, even though they’re high prescription (there’s a word for this but I can’t think of it) lenses so I have more options with frames. I dream of surgery but I don’t have the cash (and I keep having kids).
As I look over this comment I think maybe I’m not a genius afterall. I guess I’m the slow cousin, I got all the bad eyesight but none of the brains.
Comment #15 by Alison WonderlandMay 29th, 2008 at 5:58 pmI so had the bubble-gum pink coke bottle glasses in 2nd grade. I can’t see anything if I don’t have my contacts or glasses on!
Comment #16 by Richelle FMay 29th, 2008 at 6:16 pmThen I’m married to a genius–totally blind until Lasik– but I might have smaller brain. Mid-thirties and my eyes are just now starting to consider getting tired on me.
Comment #17 by AnnetteMay 29th, 2008 at 7:28 pmOoohhh, I want in!! My first glasses at age 8 were the bubble gum pink, semi translucent Sally Jessy style. Then the black plastic, same style. I was totally IN then, so I thought!! I eventually had the high index lenses, and what a difference they made. Thank goodness for LASIK!! It was the best $3500 I’ve ever financed into 12 monthly payments and I would do it again if I had to. My -9 eyes were so bad I had to put contacts in to do eyeliner, cause I couldn’t fit the pencil in between my eye and the mirror. Although I would love to claim I have the genius link, I’m not sure it would be accurate.
Comment #18 by Angie A.May 29th, 2008 at 8:10 pmI will definitely have to remember the retina thingy for my next visit, because I have weird issues with my optic nerves and I’m always subject to dilation and extended examintations. I’ve even had an ultrasound on my eyes!
I got my first pair of glasses in seventh grade, and they were the big, dark brown tortoiseshell ones that took up half my face. My mom picked them out for me. I spent all of junior high and high school convinced that all my social problems were the fault of my glasses. I felt so self-conscious about them and obsessed over getting contacts. As soon as I got to college I went out and got myself contacts. The funny thing is, I still didn’t get asked out on dates.
About five years ago my hubby and I realized that contacts weren’t fitting in our student buget anymore. I switched to glasses and I haven’t switched back yet. It’s funny, because for so many years my glasses were a serious burden that I obsessed over, and now I rarely think about the fact that I wear them. I got some trendy black frames a few years ago, but I still think I look a little better without them. Maybe someday I’ll just get LASIK.
Comment #19 by FoxyJMay 29th, 2008 at 8:40 pmThere is no amount of valium in the universe that could make me cool with being awake for eye surgery! Until then, I will continue to sleep in my contacts. 15 years and counting and no ulcers yet! I’m in the club of, if I took my lenses out at night, how would I find them in the morning?
Comment #20 by SallyGirlMay 29th, 2008 at 10:06 pmSallyGirl, I recently had Lasik and it was worth every dime and all the pre-op anxiety. It is soooo quick and painless. It has changed my world - I love outdoor activities, especially swimming & water skiing. Now I don’t have to sit on the sidelines worrying I might lose a contact. After I had Lasik, two of my girlfriends found their courage and they did it, they don’t regret it either. Plus, I was in the same club, I would wake up in the morning to a blurry, blurry world. I had to hold the clock up to my face to see what time it was. NO MORE. Just go for it.
I’ve decided to accidentally lose the old photos where I’m wearing my large rim glasses.
Comment #21 by AbbyMay 29th, 2008 at 10:32 pmI no longer can be a member of the coke-bottle geniuses, thanks to the miracle of LASIK, but the fact that I couldn’t see clearly more than three inches in front of my face pre-LASIK should be a fair indication that I once rightly belonged to the club. I’m very thankful that they came up with the technology to make the lenses out of plastic and make them thinner, because given how thick they were even with those factors, I think back in the days of actual glass I probably would have had to tie them behind my head to keep them on. I remember one pair pre-thinning that were about 3/4 of an inch thick on the edges, and as that was in fourth or fifth grade, my vision got much, much, much worse after that…
It’s been three years now since I got LASIK and some mornings I still marvel at the amazing thing of being able to see upon immediately opening my eyes.
Comment #22 by FirebyrdMay 29th, 2008 at 10:40 pmTracy - Isn’t 8.5 bad? I’m totally crash-into-stuff blind without my contacts. And people usually gasp when I tell them that (which is not often or anything. It’s not exactly something that comes up), so I always just assumed it was really bad. Now I’m gonna feel dumb if it’s just - normal bad.
I don’t qualify for Lasik. I can’t remember why. My eyeballs are too thick or too thin or too - something. (I’m all about being specific.)
Comment #23 by SueMay 30th, 2008 at 1:14 amSue-
-8.5 is bad. I’m -8.25 in my left eye, and every time I go someplace it’s always “Because of your really bad prescription….” blah blah blah. So yeah, you can be a part of the club.
FoxyJ- The retina thingy is officially called Optomap. It is actually very cool, and MUCH better than getting eyes dilated and walking around with dorky plastic sunglasses all day.
Comment #24 by Heather O.May 30th, 2008 at 5:47 amI’d like to join the club. I received my you-don’t-have-to-wear-safety-goggles-in-the-shop glasses at age two. However, as an Orthodox Hasidic Mormon, can my T-shirt say “Sprite Bottle Genius” instead?
Also, what’s up with people who lose their glasses and then go about their normal routines? I can’t find the floor to get out of bed in the morning without my glasses; misplacing my eyes is a catastrophe that stops all other activities until it can be resolved.
Comment #25 by EdjeMay 30th, 2008 at 7:10 amI have horrible vision, and it’s worse in one eye than in the other. So I wasn’t able to get the cute rimless glasses I wanted because one would have been a half-inch thick and the other would have been 3/4 of an inch thick. lopsided much? I wear contacts most of the time, but I’m old enough that I need bifocals. So I have to wear reading glasses with the contacts, or if I’m wearing glasses I’m wearing bifocals. urgh.
Comment #26 by FaithMay 30th, 2008 at 7:15 amGlasses since 7. Every fall featured new clothes, new school supplies and new glasses. (My first pair were a lovely-to-little-girl-eyes blue/pink tortoiseshell. I thought they looked like a rainbow.)
I had an eye doctor tell me the reason I needed new glasses so often was that I read so much - it exercised the eye muscles needed for viewing close up, but didn’t exercise the far-sighted muscles, so my eyes were unevenly developed. (I have no idea if he was correct or crazy.) He told me that my eyes would stop deteriorating once I was out of high school and not reading so much.
Umm, yeah. Since I am such a reading nut that I even try to read while loading the dishwasher and stirring pasta, I am obviously doomed to eventual blindness …
Anyone else get the lecture at every exam about how to recognize if your retina detaches?
Comment #27 by JenniferMay 30th, 2008 at 8:08 am-10.25 in both eyes. Glasses since first grade. Swimming lessons were traumatic because I couldn’t see a thing (anyone else relate to that?)… and it didn’t help that my teachers were French-speaking (ahh, Quebec) and I went to an English school. Thus rendering me effectively blind AND deaf. And then there are the memories of losing contact lenses in the high-school pool (shudder). I still don’t like deep water.
Comment #28 by JoyMay 30th, 2008 at 8:16 amSue, I’m -8.5 and -8.75; I was poking fun at myself! It’s bad.
I was a bookworm, too. And and artist- so all my time was spent either reading or drawing, my face inches from my project. That was the beginning of the end. I think we all, if we were kids in the 80’s, had those horrible plastic pink/purple/blue owl glasses.
Comment #29 by Tracy MMay 30th, 2008 at 8:23 amLASIK changed my life. So awesome. And my vision was bad too, like can’t see the E, so don’t even bother putting it up there bad.
I had stunningly beautiful glasses always. As does my daughter.
Comment #30 by The WizMay 30th, 2008 at 9:31 amI want LASIK, maybe some day.
anyone else found it impossible to do the glaucoma test? I cannot for the life of me, keep my eye open when they try to put that probe on my eye. Of course If i’m ever able to do LASIK, i think it will take a lot of valium for me to get through it.
Comment #31 by SarahMay 30th, 2008 at 10:39 amI can still see - umm.. mostly - glasses drive me crazy - ok it’s a short trip! ( I can’t see around the frames) I didn’t have them until I was older (computer screens did it to me - lots and lots of hours spent staring at computer screens) and I can’t get contacts because my astigmatism in one eye is too bad and I’d end up with motion sickness or something. My doctor didn’t recommend contacts for me. So for the momment I just don’t wear anything and see the world as just a little fuzzy
I would love to have LASIK. At least I think I would. I think I could it..
Comment #32 by MommomMay 30th, 2008 at 11:32 amI’ve had 3 corrective surgeries for strabismus and have worn glasses all my life. I did the contact thing for a few years (still do on occasion), but I have found that I actually like wearing glasses now that they come in fun shapes and colors. Plus they are MUCH cheaper than my stupid toric contacts.
I can not say enough good things about Zenni Optical. They are CHEAP and they have uber cute frames. Sometimes the orders take a bit to arrive, but for the price it’s worth every penny. Only thing is - have your doc measure your PD (pupillary distance) at your eye appointment. I did mine myself and it turned out perfectly fine, but it’s easier to have the doc do it.
My basic no-frills glasses in incredibly cute frames cost only $12.95, shipping included. At WalMart (icky poo) they quoted me $288, and the frames were the same quality, but weren’t nearly as cute. Not even in the same ballpark.
These are my glasses; I got the purple mix and I love love LOVE them: http://zennioptical.com/cart/product.php?productid=429&cat=20&page=1
I am sounding infomercial-ish. I will shut up now.
Comment #33 by JillMay 30th, 2008 at 8:01 pmI’m another Lasik convert. I usually forget I ever wore glasses until I see a photo of me in my horrid frames because kids have just awful taste in eyeglass frames and parents are too worried about crushing our fragile psyches to say, “are you kidding? those are so dorky!”
I swear, if my kid needs glasses, I’m wielding veto power over his choice of frames just so he never has to describe his eyeglasses in a thread like this one. Yeah. Cuz I have cool taste now that I’m an adult.
Comment #34 by MelindaMay 30th, 2008 at 8:09 pmI got my first pair of glasses at age 4. They were bifocals and I had to have a new prescription every 6 months until I was in the fourth grade and no longer required bifocals. My choices were slim since Dad was in the National Guard and there were four of us kids. I can forgive all bad/dorky glasses because my parents took me to the best guy in the state and I was out of glasses by the time I was 16, without contacts or surgery. Answering questions about the thick lines through the middle of the lenses was a pain in the butt, and going from looking at the board in school to looking at the paper on the desk in front of you took quite a bit of practice. I found that stronger the prescription, the better at frying ants and lighting small fires the glasses were.
Comment #35 by JulieLynJune 5th, 2008 at 8:53 pmI have PTSD remembering searching for “the screw to my glasses” on the floor during gym class….ahhh, good times. My first pair of glasses were heavy dark metal with purple flecks in them. I thought they were the coolest things.
Although I do remember driving home from the eye doctor in my first pair of glasses and being able to see the detailed twigs in the trees.
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