By Heather O.
I’d like to dedicate this post to my friend who has found many ticks on her and her babies this summer. She reads the blog, and says we need to discuss this very important topic. Sandra, honey, this is for you babe. And if our traffic tanks because of this, I’m totally coming after you.
One fourth of July, DH and I decided to take our son out to a park and have a family BBQ. We roasted the meat, the marshmallows, rolled around in the grass, wore our then 2 year old son out, and returned to the homestead tired and happy. We put our child down for the night, and I hopped in the shower to get rid of the campfire, smokey, sweaty ickiness that accompanies summers in the south.
As I was getting dressed, I noticed a piece of dirt that wouldn’t come off. So I brushed it off. It still didn’t come off. That’s weird, I thought, and I took a closer look.
It was a piece of dirt with legs.
I freaked. Totally. I pulled the little sucker off of my skin while yelping, then flushed it down the toilet because I didn’t know what else to do with it. Then I looked at my leg, saw that there was a red mark where the little ticky-poo had been sucking, and picked up the phone, seriously debating if I should call 911 for an ambulance to come or if I should just take myself to the ER because surely, surely, I was dying of Lyme disease.
I didn’t dial 911. I dialed my mother.
“MOM! THERE WAS A TICK ON ME! WHAT SHOULD I DO?”
“Pull it off, dear”, she calmly replied.
“I did! But now what do I do?”
“Check J for ticks. Check your husband for ticks. Then pull them out, and get rid of them.”
I woke up my sleeping child, and checked him all over, grateful for once for his incredibly white skin. Every freckle, mole, etc, stands out, and thankfully, no ticks. He was safe.
I then walked into our bedroom, where DH was already asleep, even though the light was on.
“Wake up,” I said. “I need to check you for ticks.”
“Wha? Huh?” he mumbled.
I shook him. “Wake up. Take your clothes off.”
He rolled over, squinted at me, and said, “This isn’t going to end the way I want it to, is it.”
I ignored him as I checked him for ticks, all the while with him protesting that he didn’t have any ticks and would I stop obsessing about these things and would I please let him go back to sleep already.
I found 4.
Quatro.
As in FOUR. As in YOU HAD FOUR BLOOD SUCKING PARSITES FEEDING ON YOUR LIFE FORCE, AND AREN’T YOU GLAD I WAS OBSESSING ABOUT THIS?
Dh hates it when I’m right.
But you can imagine that my discoveries did nothing to alleviate my fears about tick infested parks. I spent half the day the next day googling and researching ticks, and basically my research findings can be summed up thus:
Ticks are nasty.
And they will be standing after the nuclear holocaust, right next to the cockroaches and Cher.
So, to sum up, we welcome any and all visitors to our part of the world. The summers are especially lovely. We can offer such things as historical sites, beautiful beaches, fresh bluberry picking, and fireflies that make even adults squeal with delight.
Just check for ticks when you leave.




Ew! Eeeeewwww!!! I’m totally squirming with the yeeshies.
Comment #1 by Tracy MJune 18th, 2008 at 8:54 pmDon’t forget the blocks of styrofoam that Cher, those cockroaches and ticks will be standing on.
And ditto Tracy. Ewww!
Comment #2 by JamiJune 18th, 2008 at 9:10 pmGreat post.
Comment #3 by EdjeJune 18th, 2008 at 9:42 pmI grew up in Southern Idaho and we were checked for ticks on a fairly regular basis. I got one last year at Zion’s National Park while we were walking to the pool. Nasty little buggers…
Comment #4 by MelissaJune 18th, 2008 at 10:16 pmAnd now for a story about what NOT to do as mothers.
I used to work with a man who came home from a boy scout camping trip when he was 13 years old and discovered a tick in what might be called his scrotal area. His mother did the total freakout. She called to the neighbor’s house and asked their daughter, who was in nursing school, to come see if she could help out in a medical emergency.
Here is the scene: A 13 y.o. boy who wants to die of embarrassment, seated on the sofa with his pants and skivvies around his ankles. A 20 y.o. young woman who has lived next door all his life, who used to babysit him, and on whom he once had a super-secret crush, kneeling in front of him, closely checking out the situation. And mom, yelling and running around, acting like a total berzerker. The tick was removed successfully, but only after the laying on of hands and much manipulation of various parts of his person.
He claims to have been warped for life by that experience, and that if he ever commits a major crime, all he’ll have to do is tell the judge what his mother did to him that day and the judge will understand completely.
Comment #5 by Mark IVJune 18th, 2008 at 10:17 pmIs this one of those thinly veiled stories about “someone else” Mark IV?
Comment #6 by Tracy MJune 18th, 2008 at 11:17 pmThose who know me well know I have a country music reference for every situation. This one is for Heather’s husband who was hoping checking for ticks could have been some sort of strange pick-up line. If you don’t want to click over and see the music video, here is an excerpt of the lyrics.
Come on! How could anyone not like country music!
Comment #7 by tftcarrieJune 18th, 2008 at 11:23 pmHaving lived out west my whole growing up I was blissfully unaware at the abundance of “wildlife” elsewhere. The morning of our sealing, in the bug infested places that have sufficient water to sustain “the web of life”, I found a tick, on me. Total freak out. Thankfully, I didn’t die and 12 years later have had many more chance run ins with blood sucking heinous creepy crawlies. I won’t even mention seed ticks. Or the fact that cockroaches actually live in the “wild” too, not just big cities and in horror flicks.
But we do have fireflies, mother natures magic, twinkling afield.
Comment #8 by All8June 19th, 2008 at 12:23 amWe just recovered from lice. It is beyond gross. And CREEPY.
Comment #9 by meemsJune 19th, 2008 at 2:12 amWe just got back from a camping trip last weekend only to discover a tick each on me and my two year old son. Totally grossed me out and I did the same freak out thing. Except we read online that you’re supposed to keep the ticks in case you get really sick later and they need to test the tick for… whatever. So I have a baby food jar on my dresser with two dead ticks in it. Ick.
Comment #10 by NancyJune 19th, 2008 at 4:38 amYeah, Nancy, I read the same thing. Not a freakin’ chance in hell I’m keeping ticks around. I put DH’s 4 ticks in a Ziploc, and got so freaked out by having them around I tossed them.
meems–
Lice IS gross and creepy. I got it as a kid when I had hair almost to my waist. Yeah, my mom loved that. It took forever to get rid of it.
GREAT stories everyone. Keep ‘em coming!
Comment #11 by Heather O.June 19th, 2008 at 5:15 amCarrie-
I’d heard about that song, but had never actually listened to it. Thanks–I love country music too, especially Brad Paisley. However, I have to say that it’s sort of jarring to hear “I’d like to check you for ticks” after listening to things about moonlight and wildflowers.
Comment #12 by Heather O.June 19th, 2008 at 5:19 amWhen my son was in the 4th grade, his class went on a field trip to a local corn maze. It was a doomed trip from the start. The bus broke down and they had to tranfer to another one on the freeway and on the way home one kid threw up and that started a chain reaction will all but 4 following his example. During clean-up on teacher noticed a tic on a student. So when they got back to the school all the kids were herded into a classroom and the huge job of checking each child started. There were thousands, my son said you could see them everywhere. The actually had to bring in an extermintor to fumigate the room after school because you could see tics moving on the carpet. They never planned a trip to the corn maze again.
Comment #13 by CDJune 19th, 2008 at 5:41 amTracy, LOL! Yes, I guess it does sort of sound like something “a friend” told me. But there are two very good reasons it wasn’t me:
1. I would have died of mortification, and wouldn’t have lived to tell the story.
2. My mom was a very practical sort who didn’t get excited about much at all. If I had told her I had a tick on me, she would have said “So? Get if off.” Five minutes later, if I was still complaining, she would have assigned extra chores.
Comment #14 by Mark IVJune 19th, 2008 at 6:27 am“And they will be standing after the nuclear holocaust, right next to the cockroaches and Cher.”
Love it!
Tics are arachnids. Tics, mites, even scorpions. All related to spiders. I am an arachniphobe. I hate all things with 8 legs.
This brings back memories of childhood. Growing up in New England and Missouri, doing tic checks were routine. At girl’s camp you had to do them a few times a day. But you learned that: you always wear socks and shoes when outside (not sandals), expecially in the woods, which face it, in New England means everywhere; you stay away from the Queen Anne’s Lace flowers as tics LOVE them and are all over them; peanut butter or vaseline will kill a tick making it easier to remove because if you just pull the sucker out it’s head can get stuck in your skin; and tics can carry Lyme’s disease, however it is rather rare to get.
I guess there is merit for living in 113 degree heat. (Not kidding, that was the high yesterday) Tics don’t live here.
Comment #15 by AubreyJune 19th, 2008 at 6:28 amWow. [Knock on wood] we’ve never seen ticks yet. But then, I have this horrid fear of poison ivy, so my kids almost never go in the woods.
And speaking of poison ivy, the topic came up in conversation with some neighbors a week ago. I said something like, “And there’s those huge banks of poison ivy down by the creek.” One of my neighbors was just astounded. She didn’t know that and she admitted to not knowing what poison ivy looks like. Not to make fun of the woman (she’s my emergency back-up and you never make fun of an emergency back-up in any circumstance) but her boys got in poison ivy three times last summer. You would think at that point you would find out what it looks like and let your kids know.
Leaves of three, let them be. Glossy with reddish stems. For some advanced poison-ivy-ology with an attitude, you can look at poison-ivy.org.
Now back to the ticks…
Comment #16 by ResearcherJune 19th, 2008 at 6:34 amCombining the poison-ivy with MarkIV’s story… my mom was once a camp nurse at a YMCA camp, the summer of ‘74, in midwest. For those that don’t remember, there was a social craze going on that year, which Ray Stevens memorialized in song: “Oh yes they call him the Streak — look at that look at that — fastest thing on two feet…”
Well put poison ivy and the Streak together, and you get an urgent need to, ahem, manage the swelling and irritation.
But, unlike the mom of Mark IV’s story, my mom just had a baggie ready at the front door of her office: bottle of calomine and loads of cotton balls. She’d send the young boys to the nursing-station bathroom, and call to them through the door: “Do you need my help in there?”
Nobody took her up on it.
Comment #17 by CoffinberyJune 19th, 2008 at 7:09 am“This is going to end the way I want it to, is it?”
Comment #18 by fluffychickyJune 19th, 2008 at 7:15 amI spit water all over my computer screen reading that. Hilarious!
I have lived in Idaho my entire life. Checking for ticks is on our list of things to do before bed each night. My kids actually think it is fun…of course, they haven’t had any yet, so they will probably change their minds once they get their first tick. Is that the sort of thing I should write down in their baby books?
Worst Poison Ivy story? A friend went camping with the family. Everyone was told what PI looks like and told to avoid it at all costs. The morning they return home, the dogs gets out and run amok. They get home and everyone is covered in poison ivy rashes. Huh? Well, the dogs got into the ivy and evidently had it on their fur. Giving the dogs a good pet, shows how you can get Poison Ivy from your dogs. (It gets on their fur and stays until they’ve been bathed.) It was a horrible way to learn about transference, as his forearms were covered in a creepy rash for about two weeks.
Comment #19 by chroniclerJune 19th, 2008 at 8:09 amI can’t really respond, can’t see straight - I’m laughing way too hard!!!
Comment #20 by AbbyJune 19th, 2008 at 8:22 amOne more reason I’m glad I live in a paved in, totally concrete city with no signs of wildlife or greenery. Two things I don’t have to worry about are ticks and poison ivy. Now if I don’t die from smog inhalation or get it by a bus it will all be good.
Comment #21 by JennyJune 19th, 2008 at 9:06 amAubrey - no ticks, but plenty of other creepy-crawly things to make up for it.
The first time I visited my DH’s family in AZ (before we were married) they’d been getting lots of scorpions in the house. I was extremely diligent about shaking out my clothes and shoes (which had been on the floor all night) before putting them on. DH later informed me that scorps, like most bugs, are often really good at hanging on to vertical surfaces and shaking might not get rid of them and you really have to do a visual check if you want to be sure there aren’t any. Needless to say, I was really paranoid for a while after that.
Luckily we’ve never had scorpions while we’ve lived here, and I’ve yet to be stung by one while at someone else’s house, so I’m not as paranoid anymore (as evidenced by the continual pile of clothes on the floor of my room).
I did have a dream about a giant lizard attacking me last night though. It was about the size of a small dog in circumference, several feet long, and it was attacking me in my bed and DH just kept taking pictures of it instead of helping me. It was just about to spit poison in my eyes when I woke up. Kind of an entertaining dream.
I spent most of my elementary school years in New Jersey, and I remember having the school nurse do a presentation on lyme disease for our class. She warned us about ticks in the trees on the playground. I only ever worried about it when I went down the tall slide though, since it went past three trees which were pretty close to it. The rest of the playground equipment wasn’t as close to the trees, so I wasn’t worried (though much of it was made of wood). I also didn’t worry about walking home through those same trees, or climbing the trees in our yard. The only trees that carried the threat of ticks in my mind were the three by the tall slide.
Comment #22 by kaduseyJune 19th, 2008 at 9:12 amI’ve recovered. My DH went camping with our children and I inspected every inch of them upon their return. They were okay. DH didn’t check himself for a day or two and found one in a very, well, personal location, much like #5’s! Needless to say, DH checks for ticks after every camping trip.
Comment #23 by AbbyJune 19th, 2008 at 9:26 amNot all ticks carry lyme diesase, and even those that do won’t necessarily infect you that quickly. Generally a tick needs to be embedded for 24-48 hours to really be able to transmit anything. Be careful when you pull the tick out to not leave the head in your skin (if you squeeze it, this can happen, and it’s a lot harder to get it out, and the infection will continue to be transmitted). You really should try to scrape it out, not pull. Lyme disease will initially appear with flu-like symptoms, including a fever. Also watch for the red bullseye around the point of contact. This will not necessarily be immediate either…it may be a few days. It shouldn’t be raised, just red. At that point you should call your doctor.
Comment #24 by JanelleJune 19th, 2008 at 10:25 amRe: comment #5 (by
OK, that easily rises to the top 5 or so of the “most embarrassing moments” stories that come up on a regular basis. I’m 55, and I still buried my face in my hands (laughing) at what that young man must have been going through. ..bruce..
Comment #25 by bfwebsterJune 19th, 2008 at 11:30 amTHANK YOU Heather! I am so grossed out by them, I will never again return to the outdoors in the summer. I had to take Emma in to the Dr today and I saw a spot on her and asked the DR. “Is that a TICK”???? He assured me it was just dirt (great so now my kid is just dirty!) A tick ridden child who also appears to be dirty! Dear hubby thought he was getting lucky last week when I woke him up at 4am to remove a tick from my back (my 1st tick EVER). The whole time I am telling him that nursing moms DO NOT get up at that hour for anything but feeding babies and now ticks. My poor mom may not see her grandkids grow up,not only because Emma may not make it to her 2nd b-day but because I am moving west! I never had a tick in Ca….
Comment #26 by SandraJune 19th, 2008 at 11:31 amI never had to deal with ticks until we lived in the middle of a forest in North. Cali. We constantly had them on us after being outside, even in our yard. Our poor dog had them ALL. THE. TIME. I pulled an engorged tick off the dog the size of a grape. Nasty!! My husband runs a wildland fire crew here in South. Utah, and one of his guys got a tick on his eyelid. He freaked out and wanted to go to the E.R. to have it removed. My husband laughed at him, and told him to call him when he was done. In this case, I too am thankful for 100+ degree heat. No mosquitos or ticks in town. Hallelujah!!
Comment #27 by Angie A.June 19th, 2008 at 11:46 amOh the memories of girls camp. We had camp near where a sheep herd was, can you say tick heaven???? You could actually sit in the meadow and see the ticks fall from the tree’s ick.
Found one, one year in my panties, thank goodness it hadn’t chomped down yet.
Now we live in Missouri and although lyme disease is rare hear, Rocky Mountain spotted fever isn’t and it’s more lethal. ick.
Comment #28 by SarahJune 19th, 2008 at 12:31 pmMy 4 yr old nephew contracted Lyme’s disease this past year. The current treatment is pretty effective when administered early and he has had no effects.
He also had stitches and broke 2 bones. I am glad I have girls.
Comment #29 by MACJune 19th, 2008 at 1:33 pmSandra, there are definitely ticks in California. We used to pull them off our dog all the time. And my Dad would get them on his legs too. Yuck! Luckily I’ve never had one. Those things are nasty! Anything that sucks blood should be eliminated in my opinion!
Comment #30 by Jamie JJune 19th, 2008 at 1:56 pmAm I the only one who really really loved your DH’s reaction to being woken up and asked to strip?
Comment #31 by Alison WonderlandJune 19th, 2008 at 2:05 pmI’m suddenly all itchy and scratchy and every little thing I feel on my body I have to look at, just to make sure it’s not a tick burrowing its little head into me. And I’m just sitting on my living room couch! Never had one and hope I never do.
Comment #32 by StarababaJune 19th, 2008 at 4:05 pmBrad Paisley’s song is hilarious, but it’s not one I would share with my mother.
Ticks are God’s gift to us - so that we can laugh at Mark.
Comment #33 by RayJune 19th, 2008 at 8:43 pmHa ha ha !!! “This isn’t going to end the way I want it to…” That is HILARIOUS! And can I say, Battett is the ONLY one in our fam who has been the lucky host to a blood-sucker? I’m knocking on wood.
So…you gonna post about the cannery? My muscles hurt.
Comment #34 by nicoleJune 20th, 2008 at 6:51 amYuck. I got a tick in my arm and we couldn’t pull it out. It was STUCK. We went to the doctor who removed it, but she didn’t get it all out. It swelled with infection over the next few days. I was in college and didn’t want to pay the copay so I just heated a pocket knife and cut out the rest of the tick from my arm. That was one of the most disgusting moments of my life.
Comment #35 by SeekerJune 20th, 2008 at 9:27 amUm, yeah, for those of you who think living in the city in Arizona means you’re tick-free, think again. I hate to admit it, but my family had a HUGE tick problem in our backyard when I was younger. They were there when we moved in and it took over 5 years to get rid of them. Mesa, Arizona, ticks live here too.
Comment #36 by BlueJune 20th, 2008 at 8:13 pmWeird. We found a tick on our three year old baby girl just last week. We’ve never experienced that one before. Pretty creepy little critters…
Comment #37 by Geoff JJune 20th, 2008 at 10:58 pmOkay, let’s get this clear:
1. DON’T put vaseline on the tick or try to burn it to make it remove itself — the tick is more likely to infect you if you agitate it that way. Just remove it gently and firmly, pulling straight out without twisting. If you use tweezers, be careful not to pinch on the neck and break the head off from the body.
Do keep the tick in a baggie in case you need to know if the victim got Lyme disease from the tick.
(Yeah, a couple of my kids have had ticks. Reminds me I should check my son tomorrow, who just got back from camp today. I’m not going to wake him up though — he did wear long pants and shoes all week, so he’s probably fine.)
Also, I just recently heard that if you wash poison ivy off immediately with soap and water, you should be okay. (But once you do have a reaction, it’s too late.) Or wait, is that poison oak? Isn’t poison ivy tiny tiny splinters? (So much for being clear.)
Comment #38 by ZinaJune 20th, 2008 at 11:04 pmNo splinters involved with poison ivy. Just some awful oil called urushiol. We have so much poison ivy around here that we keep a bottle of tecnu in our cupboard with the first aid kit. Looking at the American Academy of Dermatology, they say to wash with cold running water within five minutes or soap and water within 30 minutes.
When we moved into our house, the previous owner had let the backyard run a little wild and for about two or three years I was carefully removing the last bits of poison ivy. Lots of fun. Luckily our development is mostly fenced and we don’t get many deer through here, so ticks aren’t much of a problem inside the neighborhood.
Comment #39 by ResearcherJune 21st, 2008 at 6:40 amI just got back from Girls Camp today. What a timely post! Some seemed to never have any ticks, others seemed to have quite a few. We began to refer to the bug spray as “Eau de Forest”.
Comment #40 by MommomJune 21st, 2008 at 3:01 pmA great way to get rid of poison ivy before you get the rash is Fels Naptha soap. it’s actually a laundry soap, but we always had a bar of it at our house, just for the purpose of washing away the ivy. As for ticks, i hate the little suckers. When I was teaching down south, we did a project and I had the kids plant trees in the spring. When we went out to water them when it got warmer, the darn ticks were everywhere. At least 5 of my students ended up with the blood suckers. Needless to say, we let the plants fend for themselves after that!
Comment #41 by TrixieJune 23rd, 2008 at 2:00 pm[…] And one thing I have to share. I love the blog “Mormon Mommy Wars” it’s absolutely a hoot. Well they had this awesome thread. I just have to share (and for those not Mormon, it has nothing to do with religion, just um ticks ) http://www.mormonmommywars.com/?p=1319 […]
Pingback #42 by Happy Day « Tales from a NEHI mommaJune 25th, 2008 at 10:48 pmWell DANG - and now I’m off to the doc for a rash around a tick bite!!! And I wore repellant and only had two ticks - compared with many more on others. Yeah… I’m irritated. Folks - just make them wear good repellant no matter how bad the think the stuff smells!
Comment #43 by MommomJune 26th, 2008 at 5:46 amSadly, I don’t know if repellent works with ticks all that well. Seriously, they are like indestructible, almost impossible to kill.
Comment #44 by Heather O.June 26th, 2008 at 8:30 amLet’s bring back DDT! Nuke all those ticks! (Might take care of a few sparrows too.)
:-)
Comment #45 by ResearcherJune 26th, 2008 at 8:52 amI wonder if it was a sparrow that had a rooster complex at camp…. hmmmmm…. I know that bird was singing so loudly because he thought the sun wouldn’t come up otherwise! And at this moment - I’m totally with you on the DDT!
Comment #46 by MommomJune 26th, 2008 at 10:13 amSo…what comes in to my head? 2 things. First, Brad Paisley’s song, “I Just Want to Check You For Ticks.” Brilliant.
Second, and more disgusting, is a family friend, who recently had to dig a cockroach out of her daughters mouth. ICK!!!
Comment #47 by Working Mormon WifeJuly 31st, 2008 at 3:49 pmHelp…I took in a stray dog and it has ticks..i took it real fast to a vet and they gave it frontline..i have a 5 year old at home..should i be worried?
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