By Melissa Mc
The top 10 things I learned from our family road trip (yes, there are more than 10 – I had a LOT to learn this trip!):![]()
It mattered not what po-dunk, population 81, town we traveled thru, Sam Walton had been there first (usually with a really big SuperCenter).
Cruising by roadside motels, antique stores, metal lawn ornaments, drive thru caverns and signs for pecan rolls, brought back fond memories of traveling cross-country as a kid. It also reminded me that car travel was as much apart of the vacation as the destination - not just a means to an end.
Get off the Mother Road and stop at roadside historical markers! Did you know Pres. Eisenhower was born in Denison, TX?? Me either!
Sticker books and paper dolls were nearly as popular as the DVD player (and much less noisy!)
Our recession-era “stay-cation” was just as fun as going someplace exotic, like Mexico or Disney (although, those are still on the list).
Regardless of how much effort I put into making healthy snacks for the car (apples, cheese, trail mix), McDonalds wrappers were the only things I found littering the floor boards afterwards.
Was able to ice skate without killing myself after nearly 25 yrs of inactivity. And was humbled that my novice children were infinitely better than I was from the moment they stepped on the ice.
King Tut was not nearly as impressive as he was when I saw him at age 9. I think his entourage has been reduced to a few jackals, jewels and jars. The kids thought that the entombing process that required his brain to pulled out thru his nose to be the best part of the exhibit.
Was amazed that my 8 year old was as overwhelmed by the Sixth Floor Book Depository museum as I was. Standing near the window where those fatal shots were fired gives you chills – even though it happened before all of us were born.
Was very thankful the broken stroller wheel held up long enough to make it through 2 museums and back to the car in the rain!
Would like to report that the hundreds of Katrina FEMA trailers are still in SW Arkansas. Unused. Rotting.
When digging for diamonds, prepare yourself as if you were going on a major archeological dig, with pick axes, shovels, boots, camo, buckets, sifting screens, and knee pads. Do not go in loafers, khakis and a fresh manicure. Oh, and pack an extra pair of clothes for the kids…because you will throw away the pair they had on originally.
Was reminded why I never adopted the “co-sleeping” method of parenting as I tried to share my bed with one or more of my children and was amazed that a human being so small could sleep on every square inch of mattress available, including the square inches occupied by their mother.
Regardless of how old I am, I will always cry when I say good bye to my parents.
There is NO ONE I would rather spend time with than those 4 human beings that complete my family.
The glories of my own bed and pillow…’nuf said.




Okay, I recently drove through Denison for the first time and was also surprised to learn that Eisenhower was born there! Who knew? We’ll have to go diamond hunting sometime. Glad you had a good time. I enjoy a road trip with the fam about once every year or two!
Comment #1 by FairchildMarch 27th, 2009 at 5:14 pmI’m from Allen, TX (off Hwy 75 btwn Denison and Dallas) and you’re making me miss home. Glad you had a good trip!
Comment #2 by HeidiAnnMarch 27th, 2009 at 6:58 pmYou have managed to capture the joy, pain, and recovery of a family vacation. Well done! Made me in the mood for a roadtrip…
Comment #3 by Steph @ Diapers and DivinityMarch 27th, 2009 at 7:03 pmPS - There is no Walmart in Allen (though this may have recently changed). Before the population boomed there was a Walmart, but when they needed to expand, they moved into Plano. Since then they haven’t been allowed back, though they’ve tried.
Comment #4 by HeidiAnnMarch 27th, 2009 at 7:04 pmTut is amazing - in Egypt. The really amazing part is that his tomb was very small in comparison to the others in the valley of the Kings - imagine if they found an untouched one of a more prominent/longer reigning pharoh.
Comment #5 by rebekahMarch 27th, 2009 at 7:22 pmYou almost make me want to go on a road trip. Almost.
Comment #6 by mormonhermitmomMarch 27th, 2009 at 9:08 pmThe baby screaming in the background stops me though every time.
Comment #7 by SarahMarch 27th, 2009 at 9:39 pmOh, the joys of co-sleeping! I can do it when they’re tiny infants, but my 8 month old kicks me out of the bed every time I try even though she’s just a tiny little thing at 10th percentile weight, so I don’t care how tired I am, she goes back to her crib nowadays or I don’t get any sleep anyway. I totally hear ya on that.
And I was overwhelmed by the 6th Floor Book Depository museum as a teenager even though I wasn’t alive when it happened, either. Makes you wish someone really knew the real story behind it all.
Comment #8 by StarababaMarch 27th, 2009 at 11:19 pmThe Walmart thing had me. We have a Walmart & are getting a new super center plus a smallish Sam’s but Still have No craft store.
Now, I’m really excited to try taking our trip in July. Really. Just me & a 12 yr old plus a 7 yr old. Fun….
Comment #9 by Sues2u2March 28th, 2009 at 1:38 amThe Walmart thing had me. We have a Walmart & are getting a new super center plus a smallish Sam’s but Still have No craft store.
Now, I’m really excited to try taking our trip in July. Really. Just me & a 12 yr old plus a 7 yr old. Fun….
All to sleep in a really uncomfortable bed @ my parent’s & to visit my grandmother. I wish I could leave in the am & I always cry when I leave my parent’s too.
Comment #10 by Sues2u2March 28th, 2009 at 1:40 amI think that’s what had the most impact on me at the 6th floor…that despite the years that have passed and the technology that we have to analyze pictures/films, we will never really know who did it for sure or if there was another “gunman.” However, standing at the window made me think LHO could have easily done it by himself.
Comment #11 by Melissa McMarch 28th, 2009 at 6:56 amWe went digging for garnets once. Huge holes filled with water and mud+kids=never again. The end.
Comment #12 by MoMarch 28th, 2009 at 12:00 pm“even though it happened before all of us were born.”
I feel SO old!
Comment #13 by RayMarch 28th, 2009 at 12:47 pmWe are, Ray, we are.
Comment #14 by Ardis ParshallMarch 28th, 2009 at 1:04 pmYou know, i lived in Texas five years, and never went there. One of my regrets. May I offer up something else- the National Holocaust Museum in Washington DC. We’ve all learned about it in school, watched the movies, maybe read the books. I always knew it happened, but felt like “Why should I care? It doesn’t impact me at all.” After visiting that museum and seeing their uniforms hanging and almost literally feeling the horrors they went through, I will never forget it. A friend of mine said that it may be because I was a spirit who welcomed them into heaven. Maybe. It doesn’t matter. Going to that museum was amazing; an eye-opening experience.
Comment #15 by bay area momMarch 28th, 2009 at 8:20 pm