By Melissa Mc
School started yesterday, so for the first time in three months, I started cleaning.
My daughter’s room alone took the whole day. I’m convinced she is destined for an intervention on a future episode of Hoarders. I lugged 2 garbage bags FULL of TRASH out of her room. I have NO idea where she gets this tendency to stick used band aids into the backs of her drawers. I found empty water bottles, scrap paper, cut Barbie hair (oh, that bugs me!) – and lots and lots Barbie clothes stuffed in corners. When she came home she was ecstatic! In no time, it will look like it did before, and I will have to devote another marathon day to de trash her room. C’est la vie.
I find my cleaning episodes are made far more manageable by the selection of music – anything from Shostakovich to Led Zeppelin. Yesterday was an NPR day – something about the monotony of daily news and Diane Rehm was what I need to persevere. It’s amazing what I learned about bedbugs– I guess they are infesting the country – offices, movie theatres, college dorm rooms. Makes my battle with lice last fall look like a carnival. I learned that if I am ever infested, if I heat my house to 140 degrees – that should take care of it. Nice to know.
Today, I tackled my boys’ room. It was not nearly as bad as my daughter’s. Race cars, Bakugans and dinosaurs only needed sorting into their requisite baskets. No used band aids shoved under their mattresses in their room. But it did require U2’s Vertigo to get me thru.
The first day of school also marked my first day as PTA president. Actually, I’ve been working for over a month – state conventions, PTA training, student registration, new student orientation, teacher supply checks, newsletter, website updates, Facebook account, Twitter – this really is a full time job. Yesterday, I put on my best happy face and welcomed students to school. I felt like a politician seeking re-election. Except, they were happy to see me too!
I have a confession – for all the times I wanted to quit – for all the anxiety I have felt leading up to this job – it has completely evaporated. Once I made the decision to preserve, I’ve felt like Queen Esther, like I was supposed to be in this position. I made my husband “set me apart” about three weeks ago (OK, it was a priesthood blessing, but it felt like I was getting set apart) – and I had the calmest, most serene feeling come over me. I can do this. It won’t be easy, parents will get mad, teachers will want something I can’t give, but I truly feel like I can handle anything that comes my way.
Next Thursday is my first PTA meeting – I’m preparing budgets, agendas, fundraising committees – and practicing my Robert’s Rules of order – anyone want to make a motion?! Can I get a second?!
Hope you are preparing for a great school year (yes, Wiz, we know you are already back!). When you see you PTA president, please don’t run from them – take the time to at least ask her (or him) how she is doing.
Also, I hope you are getting your house in order after months of children infestation. At least you won’t have to heat it to 140 degrees to get it back to normal.
What music will you be listening too?




You ROCK! Cleaning out band aids? That PTA better watch out, man.
And my daughter’s rooms are ALWAYS worse than my son’s. I thought it was supposed to be the other way around? But he does make the bathroom clean up a lot worse….
Comment #1 by The WizAugust 20th, 2010 at 12:25 pmI must say, I am 1000% jealous of your PTA. Here in CA we have these awful organizations (and I use that term loosely) called PTC’s (Parent-Teacher Club), PTO’s (Parent-Teacher Organization), or Community Clubs.
They are sad, sad copies of the fabulousness that is PTA. There is NO parental involvement; and no amount of cheerleading, begging, or pleading, that will get more than the same 2-4 families actively involved each and every year.
No “Reflections” encouraging our students to do their best, no “Boo-Hoo” breakfast for the first-time kindergarten parents, no Teacher Appreciation, Room Moms (or dads!), nothing.
I tried to do my part, I tried to be the change, but one can only take so much stonewalling from their peers (again, loosely termed) and community.
So I applaud you for your efforts, and as the wife of a teacher I thank you for your awesomeness and willingness to serve your school community and your time and whatever else you give of yourself to make your organization successful.
And I not-so-secretly send green arrows of envy your way because I am super jealous.
Comment #2 by SallyGirlAugust 20th, 2010 at 12:28 pmTwo of my 3 schoolkids are halfway through their first quarter. The third kids starts middle school on Monday. I have been thinking all along that once she’s in school that life will be back to normal. Then I looked at my calendar. I am going to my mom’s (SOLO!!!) for a LONG weekend the 9-13th. I will be home a day and a half, then my brother will be here for 6 days. Then that weekend is my favorite weekend of the year: Mom’s Day Off. I go to a HUGE craft fair and then later that day is the RS Broadcast and dinner. BUT that day also marks the beginning of the 2 kids’ 3-week break. So, I’m thinking it’s not going to be until mid-October that I get to get back to a regular routine. Oh well, at least it will be time for soups by then and menu planning may come easier?!
Music to clean and organize by: Styx Greatest Hits, Eye of the Tiger, Kung Fu Fighting, and some “cardio” CDs I have.
Comment #3 by StrollerbladerAugust 20th, 2010 at 2:54 pmIn Japan summer vacation comes half way through the school year, so the kids are in and out of school all summer, plus get a pile of homework. Even so, I am looking forward to life getting back to “normal” on Sept 1st!
Major cleaning is needed here too, but that is going to have to wait for the temperature to drop under 30 degrees C!! the 35s(=95F) and humidity we have been having this year are just too hot!
Comment #4 by namakemonoAugust 20th, 2010 at 5:07 pmI got covered by bedbugs this summer, thanks to a seedy hotel in London. Bedbugs are horrible! The bites start out like mosquito bites but progressively get worse so that your skin feels like it is a fire of itchiness. When you scratch, the bites spread outward like a target board, not upwards like a bump. And the worst part? It can take 3-9 days for the bites to appear, depending on how much lysosome from the bedbug stomach the stupid thing pumped into your skin to “numb” you for the bite.
Luckily, my husband, 6 yr old, and nursing baby who was co-sleeping with me escaped unbitten. I count it as a direct blessing that my baby didn’t get one bite! Blessings from heaven baby. If you want to see my bites (or part of them) you can check out my post:
Comment #5 by AmyAugust 20th, 2010 at 7:50 pmhttp://alittletasteofsunshine.wordpress.com/2010/07/05/my-european-vacation-may-be-over-but-for-my-suitcase-it-is-just-beginning/
Oh my gosh — I just read your post!!
Comment #6 by Melissa McAugust 20th, 2010 at 7:56 pmOnce you got rid of everything — did you have any more problems??
the NPR story was really quite depressing, because they made it sound like, short of a nuclear holocaust, there was very little you could do to get rid of them!
Ugh. I heard that NPR story too while I was making breakfast.
Two years ago our upstairs neighbor had a flood and completely ruined our entire 2200 sq/ft condo. Both floors were destroyed. The whole thing had to be gutted. So everything got tossed into boxes helter skelter and we had restoration crews in for weeks while my husband and I had to move out. I started graduate school during that time, then two months after moving home we were surprised by being chosen for adoption and had about 3 hours notice. 3 months later, just as we were coming out of the sleep deprivation and ready to find our lives in our boxes, DD was diagnosed with a fatal genetic disorder and thus began chemo and a transplant (second transplant coming up soon.) So yeah, we had a lot of digging out to do. I’ve spent the past few months digging at night and watching StarGate. Yesterday I loaded the last of our books into the bookshelves while watching the last episode of 10 seasons. I’ve never even seen a whole season of anything before!! But it got me through tons of cleaning!!!
Comment #7 by SeekerAugust 20th, 2010 at 11:16 pmooohh…a little disturbed by the bed bug thing…must try heating house.
Good for you getting that room clean. I LOVE cleaning the rooms when the kids are gone. When they are there they think they need everything but when they’re gone, they actually appreciate it more.
And good for you for being the PTA president. It was wise of you to get a blessing. I think it’s wonderful that you would give your time to such a busy cause. Hope you have a great year.
Comment #8 by CherylAugust 21st, 2010 at 6:55 amI am well far past the years of PTA and cleaning my children’s bedrooms but it is nice to read that someone else now cleans the room of their child-hoarder. Can’t say I miss the doing of that - but I do get nostalgic. And I suppose I should admit that I envy you the band-aids at the back of the drawer and the Barbie remains. I pray that you will be appreciated for your efforts. It will matter to you on the days that are tough.
I found you because of the Post of the Week blog hop from Mormon Mommy Blogs. I decided to visit every site listed before mine and follow for reasons of fellowship. So glad that I did. You’ve touched a place in my heart.
Comment #9 by Sharon CohenAugust 21st, 2010 at 12:20 pmOh. My. Life. This is so familiar. My daughter keeps so many “treasures” that I secretly go in her room at night and throw things away. Oh, and lately my cleaning music is anything Broadway.
Comment #10 by MomBabeAugust 21st, 2010 at 7:34 pmI am TRYING to be ready! School starts in less than a week. We’re trying to get the twins moved downstairs to the newly-finished rooms in the basement (newly finished except we’re still getting the carpet in!) in time to get everyone arranged ‘just so’. I can’t wait to start decluttering. You KNOW it’s gotten bad when you’re excited to clean and dejunk!
Good luck with the PTA President thing. I haven’t done much with PTA but have done volunteer coordinating/ fundraising for other non-profit reasons. It’s hard and nearly thankless work but so worth it. I’m sure you’ll do great!
Comment #11 by CynthiaAugust 21st, 2010 at 10:55 pmMelissa, I think we were lucky where the bedbugs were concerned. As soon as we recognized that was what they were, we dumped my suitcase and everything in it. I walked away with the clothes on my back, went to a store and bought a new outfit, and then threw the clothes on my back away. Once I was in all new clothes I bought a new suitcase, some clothes to last me the last week. I had the kids’ clothes in a different suitcase, and my husband had his own suitcase, so I figured they were probably good to travel. Once we got home though, I dumped everything in the washing machine in a hot cycle, and I put the diaper bag in the freezer for a week. So far we haven’t had any bedbug problems, and that was 2 months ago!
Comment #12 by AmyAugust 22nd, 2010 at 10:22 pmI’m School Community Council Chair this year and we instituted a Tardy Policy. One mom, (a chronic late person) is sooo mad at me / the Tardy policy. It’s going to be a fun fun school year!
Comment #13 by Teresa BenedictAugust 23rd, 2010 at 12:24 pmHowever it taught everyone a good lesson of: If you come to meetings, you get a say in the decisions.
Maybe more people will come now?