By Heather O.
Our ward’s trunk or treat is tonight, so I went to Target to get some candy.
I think shopping for Halloween candy is stressful.
First, there’s the fact that there are about 4 aisles JUST of candy. How on earth am I supposed to choose? What kind of candy is in these days? Should I buy candy that *I* like, so I can happily eat the leftovers, or should I buy candy that I hate, to help stave off the forthcoming holiday food binge? Should I buy candy that will tempt trick-or-treaters to think we’re the “cool” house, or should I just grab a bag of Nerds and call it good?
Also, there’s the issue of how MUCH to get. Our neighborhood gets a healthy amount of trick or treaters, but not, like, a million or anything. Will there 50 this year, or 100 kids? Should I get enough to give out just 1 treat, or 3?
Throw in the trunk or treat tonight, and I find myself staring at two bags of 135 pieces of chocolate each, wondering if, at $14.99 a pop, 370 pieces of candy is sufficient.
Then I put the two bags in the cart, and it looks puny. So I start adding things— more candy, some stickers, oooh, playdough, kids like playdough, and OMGosh here are some cheap halloween TATTOOS!. Everybody likes tattoos, and we’ll be the house where people say, “Remember the year the O house handed out tattoos? MAN they are awesome!” And dentists and dental hygienists all over the nation will praise our name FOREVER.
I stop to listen to the angels singing in my head.
And suddenly my cart is full and I wind myself to the checkout only to reminded as I stare at my load that my husband and I just went over our budget this week and that $100 worth of trick-or-treat goodness, just to impress some sugar-crazed kids who will forget our house in their sugar-induced comas at the end of the night is probably not in said budget.
So what do I put back on the shelf?
Seriously, first world Halloween problems? They are the worst.




rofl… so awesome. And so true. Oh… add in that at OUR trunk or treat, two kids have SERIOUSLY life threatening peanut allergies. Oh, and my kid? is allergic to corn syrup. Which leaves him pixie stix, reeses cups (note: no. see above), things like tattoos and toothbrushes (three year old says “whee.”) and hersheys “wow those are expensive for that teency little chocolate drop” kisses. NOW FIGURE IT OUT>
Comment #1 by Heather B from SCOctober 20th, 2012 at 2:10 pmWe started doing juice boxes/pouches about 6 or 7 years ago. I’ll never go back to the torture that is choosing candy!
Comment #2 by DanielleOctober 20th, 2012 at 2:14 pmAnother reason Halloween should GO. AWAY.
Comment #3 by The WizOctober 20th, 2012 at 2:39 pmTrunk or treat is best when done on Saturday night. Then you can watch the children stumble into the chapel with their candy hangovers the next day. They look like miniature grown ups who partied too hard the night before.
This ties into my nursery chaos theory. If you give these kids candy, there’s gonne be chaos.
Comment #4 by BradleyOctober 20th, 2012 at 6:24 pmWhy do we have to have a trunk-or-treat every year, not just the years that Halloween falls on Sunday? Trunk or treat plus school carnival plus regular trick or treating?! Hello, sugar rush! Hello, insulin resistance! Hello, childhood obesity! I’m turning into a candy grinch. Too much sugar! Fortunately, my kids have embraced our Halloween tradition of keeping 15 pieces of candy and trading the rest to the Great Pumpkin. She comes in the night, takes away the candy, and leaves a gift in return. Sometimes big, sometimes small. Unfortunately, I am the Great Pumpkin and last year, I ate all the candy. Blah. This year, I won’t.
Comment #5 by ErinOctober 20th, 2012 at 7:27 pmPreach it, Erin. PREACH IT.
Comment #6 by The WizOctober 20th, 2012 at 7:49 pmI remember Halloweens when I had to rustle up costumes for 3 or 4 assorted kids. When they were younger (and I was younger too) I would actually sew them. Myself. Then I found out what thrifting was for. I still had to sew, but not from scratch.
Then there was the years of the school PTA sponsored carnival, which was also the single biggest fundraiser for the “sponsor.” Those years are kind of a blur. I made the mistake of doing a great job of planning/executing the themed decorations, and I became their favorite mom every year for a month. Mrs. October, that was me. I also needed a costume of my own that wasn’t too lame. Halloween candy became the least of my worries.
I have finally found Halloween nirvana in what I do now to mark the event: nothing.
Comment #7 by MDearestOctober 21st, 2012 at 2:37 amI’m with Erin!
Comment #8 by LisaCOctober 22nd, 2012 at 4:20 amI love Halloween. I love trunk-or-treating (unless they try to do it ON Halloween). I love dressing up in punny costumes. I love buying cheap candy that is OK to eat; not my favorite, and not peanut butter taffy, Dum Dums, or Smarties (the US kind, made in Canada though!). No school carnivals here to deal with. The best is when Trunk-or-Treat comes before the Nevada Day parade and you can sit there watching the parade snacking on candy. Yep. I love Halloween.
Comment #9 by StrollerbladerOctober 22nd, 2012 at 9:06 amAlso, we live in a neighborhood that gets very few trick-or-treaters. Several houses either leave out a bowl of candy for you to get your own from, or they give out full size candy bars, or they give you several handfuls of candy because they overbought for the 11 trick-or-treaters they get. Many are seniors and they love to see the kids and their costumes.
Comment #10 by StrollerbladerOctober 22nd, 2012 at 9:08 amOh my gosh, Erin, you cracked me up! “Unfortunately, I am the Great Pumpkin…” Hahaha. I’m dying!
But I totally agree- I’m moving to a new ward Sunday with tons of obese children and I’m going to go crazy with the food stuff in the ward!!
Comment #11 by MerkatOctober 23rd, 2012 at 10:32 pmI know this is late, but I always buy only candy that I like, so if there are leftovers, I am set. I’m not much of a candy eater, so I also bring the leftovers to work. Suddenly people who rarely talk to me have a reason to come by and visit.
Comment #12 by CS EricOctober 26th, 2012 at 7:20 pmit’s all about the mini bags of popcorn then you can eat it if you have a craving for popcorn one night, but it’s not like little chocolate bars that are calling your name constantly and then there is the whole sugar coma thing that’s not coming from your house! It takes care of all the angst!
Comment #13 by DebOctober 29th, 2012 at 3:35 am