By Heather O.
It’s January. Which means I’m cleaning.
Our bedroom has long been a mess. Not just your typical hey, get those socks off the floor kind of mess, but the kind where there are piles of stuff in each corner that have no home. Actually, it’s not really stuff—it’s paper. Books, mostly, because we got rid of some bookshelves and then waited a long time to get new ones, which means there were lots of homeless books for a while.
But we got some Christmas money, and hoo boy, we spent it on shelves. Big Ikea shelves, which aren’t what I would call beautiful, but are at least a step up from the Walmart shelves we had in there. Add a new coat of paint and new bedding, and it feels like a different room! Or, at least I think it will, once we figure out where to house all these homeless books. And what color to paint the walls. And which new comforter to buy.
And what to do with the paper. It’s always the paper.
We had a filing cabinet, but we got rid of it because it was taking up too much space (our house just isn’t that big). We cleaned it out, put everything into one of those file bin thingies, and put it in the garage. Which is fine, except when we get forms that don’t have a file already, or more insurance forms, or new insurance forms, or new mortgage forms because we refinanced, and then there are the retirement forms, and since our retirement funds got sold to a different broker, there are about 8 thousand forms *informing* us of all the new forms we’ll have to fill out, and it gets to a point where I want to throw away every single scrap of paper in the entire house. Except that I think some of the paper is important, and I never know what to throw away and what to keep.
I hate paper.
And don’t even get me started on the pictures. I have boxes of old pictures that are sitting around, waiting to be dealt with. Do we scan them? Do I throw them away? And lest you think I am averse to chronicling my children’s lives, there are no less than 5 digital scrapbooks I’ve made over the years sitting on our new shelves, which include poetry and original artwork, along with about 8 from their grandmother who thinks Shutterfly is God’s gift (which, yeah, it kinda is). Their lives, they’re chronicled.
And then there is also the problem of new technology eclipsing old technology. For example, CDs. Who listens to CDs anymore? Between Pandora and Itunes, it’s covered. And DVDs–seriously, the only place we watch DVDs anymore is in the car. The rest of our movie needs are either fulfilled via Itunes rentals, Amazon rentals, or streaming via Netflix. So, do I throw out my copy of Buffy, season 2? What do I do with my husband’s favorite Handel CD, music that he has no doubt downloaded to a variety of other devices? I like that new technology makes our lives easier and faster and more convenient and that you don’t have to buy an entire album based on the one song you like and suffer through the experimental garbage the artist has thrown on there just because he can.
But what do you do with the old technology in the meantime?
First world problems, I know. Although I’m pretty sure the entire world faces decisions about what to do with junk.
Which is why I love cleaning the bathroom. Give me a bottle of Clorox, a scrub brush, and some poop to scrape off the potty, and I’m good. Simple, easy, no decisions, no trash, no organization skills needed. Just some good old fashioned elbow grease and a clean result that makes your house smell nice.
Somebody tell me what color to paint my bedroom. And if you need any books on chess, I found 13 of them.




DITCH THE PAPER. It’s all online. Get some cute baskets to store your DVD’s and CD’s and only keep the ones you think you’ll watch in the car (or during laundry or being sick.) 2 baskets should do it, and they will look nice on the new shelves.
Comment #1 by The WizJanuary 4th, 2013 at 3:18 pmScan all the photos. There are also websites that will digitize all of it for you and send you a CD which you can download or store or put on a USB drive or in the cloud.
I’ll take a book on chess
And this is so not related at all, but I found this app that will print you coupons *that you actually use*. It’s called Saverr, which is an admittedly silly name with the extra “r”, but I like it, and thought of you because there have been coupon-clipping discussions here before.
Comment #2 by EleanorJanuary 4th, 2013 at 7:19 pmMy bedroom is “Tinman” by Kwal. I heart it…a lot. But, I like gray.
Comment #3 by LacyJanuary 4th, 2013 at 10:57 pmI know it’s the “in” thing right now, but we painted our new house in “platinum gray” which is a perfect medium between light gray and dark gray (or us it grey?). I love it. It has a very calming simplicity to it. I also find deep blues with bright white accents also relax me. Go to Pinterest. Heaven knows I’ve pinned a bajillion color tones that speak my language. Ah Pinterest…what did we do before you?
I bought a big CD case and put all the CDs we still wanted as well as our DVDs in there, and then I put it in storage. That way, if for some reason the digital file–wherever it may be–gets lost/stolen/corrupted/deleted by unexplained means-I still have the original I can dig out, but it’s not staring at me in its “I’m taking up all this useful space” space.
And maybe I’m a little sick and twisted, but nothing feels better than an uber clean bathroom when it has been dirty for a disdainful amount if time.
Comment #4 by HaybayJanuary 5th, 2013 at 9:41 amI vote strongly against grey. I lived in a basement apartment for six years where the living room had been painted grey. It matched the carpet but it gave the main living area an unfinished, industrial feel. I finally repainted it a soft yellow and it made SUCH a difference.
For the bedroom, I prefer calm colors. My daughter’s room is sky blue. Our bedroom is Behr’s “Herbal Scent” (a shade of green) because it feels very forest-like to me. If I had the time and the talent (and didn’t have the suspicion my husband wouldn’t be as keen on it as I am), I’d totally paint some tree trunks on my walls to enhance the feeling of being in the woods.
Comment #5 by Proud Daughter of EveJanuary 5th, 2013 at 1:35 pmWe are moving all CDs and DVDs into one of those CD binders and then we’re throwing away the cases. It still means a lot of discs in a book that we’ve got to buy, but I just can’t handle throwing them away. So it’s space-saving if not really moving us to just using the new technology.
We just painted my son’s room three different colors. I love it. But we’ve learned not to paint in the winter. We’ll be doing the rest of our painting when it’s warm outside and we can rinse our brushes and things with the hose.
Comment #6 by EmilyJanuary 5th, 2013 at 11:49 pmWe appear to have the same bedroom. And I think you just gave me a panic attack. That’s it, I’m going to go scrub the bathroom.
Comment #7 by JoyJanuary 8th, 2013 at 1:54 pmDid you know that you can go to Amazon.com and trade in the dvds you don’t want anymore? They will buy them back (at a much lower rate, of course) and send you a gift card for the balance. If those movies, books, and cds are just taking up space, why not get a little cash for them? Amazon will even pay for the shipping.
Sheesh, I’m sounding like a commercial, here.
I’ve never done this, but I know folks do. Good luck with the bedroom, and if you’re dying for more fulfillment, I have a couple bathrooms that are calling your name!
Comment #8 by Heather BJanuary 15th, 2013 at 11:06 am