By Tracy M
By now, you all are probably so done with my musings on the finer points (ha!) of mamaries. This is it, I promise! I’ve pontificated on the medical healing of breast reduction surgery, the special level of torture that is pumping everything your baby eats, and my own grief at not being able to nurse. But I have something to add, something I never thought I would say; I have a baby that is nursing.
When I last posted a Mammary, I was in the throes of grief, and had all but thrown in the proverbial towel. I had bound myself and started giving my baby formula. Doing as the lactation nurse suggested, my milk supply was all but annihilated, but I just couldn’t bring myself to completely stop. So I was pumping a bottle or two for her each day- just enough that my milk wasn’t gone, and just enough that I was hopeful she was getting some good from it. Then, one day as I was pumping and she was rooting and definitely hungry, I thought, “Hey, maybe..?”. Well, it never worked with the boys, but the thought was tempting (inspired?) nonetheless… Especially since she had been so eager at first. So I picked her up and gave it a shot.
Well, guess what? It seems The Voracious One has done what over 1000 hours on a breast pump could not do. Yes, my little Hoover has managed to latch on, correctly, and for the first time in my life, I have a baby that is getting her milk directly from my body. Miracles…They really do happen. Granted it’s a small miracle in the Grand Scheme, but it’s my miracle, and I will take it and shout Hossanah!
Is it because I made such a big deal about not being able to nurse, and I needed to be shown who was really The Boss? Could be. Is it because I had the faith to try even when I knew it was “unlikely”? Maybe. Is it because this a different baby and she has a much stronger urge to suck, a hungry tummy and a patient personality? Possibly. Perhaps it is because of the reduction surgery making everything a more “manageable” size? Probably. I think it’s likely a fair mixture of all these things.
Either way, I’m ready to publicly have a big ole slice of Humble Pie, to eat some Crow and have a side of My Hat. Bring it on! I’m hungry! Never in my life have I been so completely overjoyed to be Wrong!




Awesome, Tracy! Congrats!
Comment #1 by Julie (rarely-home mom)May 24th, 2006 at 3:02 pmHow????????
Amazing. Just amazing.
Comment #2 by The WizMay 24th, 2006 at 3:23 pmYAY!!!!!!
Wow, I’m about to start crying.
But I’m so superhappy that it finally worked out!!
Comment #3 by AllannaMay 24th, 2006 at 4:54 pmI’m so glad for you since you so desperately wanted this! What great news!
Comment #4 by MaryMay 24th, 2006 at 5:14 pmWiz- I don’t know how! I still have all the same problems I had with the boys (ie: cat. 3 inversion) but I think the surgery did something (What? I have no idea) and she is willing to really work for it- and she’s getting it somehow, because if I pump after she’s done, I’m empty. Beyond that, anyone’s guess is as good as mine.
I guess it’s a lesson in not giving up hope?
Comment #5 by Tracy MMay 24th, 2006 at 5:58 pmThat is awesome. Tears are filling the eyes as we speak…
What a wonderful feeling and what a great relief! I’m really happy for you…
Comment #6 by CherylMay 24th, 2006 at 6:50 pmGo Momma!
Comment #7 by Heather O.May 24th, 2006 at 7:24 pmHuzzah and congratulations!
Comment #8 by Proud Daughter of EveMay 24th, 2006 at 7:31 pmThat’s really wonderful to hear Tracy. I’m so happy for you.
Comment #9 by KarenMay 24th, 2006 at 8:25 pmOh Tracy,
I am so glad for you. Really really special, and what a special miracle for you it is!
I love that you called it your miracle, and in the grand scheme of things, it is still pretty darn big!
I love it, LOVE it, when people celebrate the real things.
Comment #10 by Lisa M.May 25th, 2006 at 12:49 amWow that’s fantasic! I’m actually tearing up! Congratulations!!
Comment #11 by Jamie JMay 25th, 2006 at 4:07 pmwoohoo! congrats! That’s wonderful, I’m so happy for you!
Comment #12 by VickiMay 25th, 2006 at 4:48 pmI’m so happy for you, Tracy! I had nursing problems with my first child (she just refused it) that ultimately worked out after 2 weeks with a lactation consultant and an afternoon and evening of baby tough love (as directed by the LC). I was so thrilled that it finally worked out! I’m glad it did for you too.
Comment #13 by Sara RMay 25th, 2006 at 7:38 pmWhat a wonderful ending to this saga.
Comment #14 by claireMay 26th, 2006 at 11:56 amI’m very happt for both of you.
Comment #15 by a spectatorMay 28th, 2006 at 10:54 pmWow, that gives me chills! I am so happy for you!
Pam
Comment #16 by AnonymousMay 31st, 2006 at 11:27 pm