By Heather O.
Yes, it’s true. I had heard that this particular pediatrician was, um, shall we say, “hip” with maybe a whispered ‘ee!’ at the end, and I had even heard he had a long ponytail, but I was still not totally prepared for the young hip doctor with a pony tail and the skinny goatee that started in the middle of his chin and crawled down his neck like a giant fuzzy caterpillar who boomed into the tiny and poorly lit examining room to rescue my son from his 103.7 temperature. And wow, that was quite a sentence, if I do say so myself.
Still, faulty flourescent bulbs and hipness aside, he had come highly recommended from a woman who qualifies as probably the most overprotective mother on earth. I like being friends with those type of women, because while they inevitably are shocked when I let my 4 year old jump into the deep end without floaties (Yes, he can swim, no, I’m not going in there with him, yes, he can make it to the wall, yes, he knows it’s the deep end, no, I’m not trying to deliberately drown my offspring), they also tend to be in the know about who is the best at what. And since I try as often as possible to limit my workload as a mother (read: Yup, lazy), I enjoy reaping the benefits of their psychosis.
The Dr. engaged J in a fun and yet not condescending way, and J even had the confidence to answer the question, “What’s goin’ on with you today, bud?” with a classic J statement.
“Well. There’s the coughing. And the barfing. And the feber.”
Dr. Goatee said seriously, “The Feber.”
J, “Yup. The feber. It makes my back hot, and Mommy has to give me medicene to make me cool.”
He did an evaluation, a flu test, and since J has basically been sick for over 2 weeks, prescribed an antibiotic, which I am reluctant to give him, but will do so anyway because everybody I’ve asked insists I will not be breeding a superbug in my son any time soon. I am confident that this pediatrician is fairly competent, what with Ubermom’s recommendation and all, but still, I have to admit that the whole time I was looking at the caterpillar-like thing on his face thinking, “Wow, is that even allowed?”
We ended the visit with the usual pleasantries, and then he said something that made me immediately loyal to him forevermore. After he handed me the prescription he said, “And if there’s a problem,or if things get worse, just call and we’ll try to take care of it over the phone. No sense in dragging your kid out again and paying another copay for a useless office visit.”
At last a doctor who really gets a sick kid’s mother’s dilemma. Maybe more doctors should have goatees.




Some Dr.s will keep in touch through e-mails…ask if they do because they don’t tell you that that’s an option.
Comment #1 by JSNovember 13th, 2006 at 11:45 pmHey, a good pediatrician is worth his weight in Triaminic- hang onto Dude! Caterpillar facial hair? Eh, oh well. But then again, you do have a thing for caterpillars…!
Comment #2 by Tracy MNovember 14th, 2006 at 3:17 amI love hippies man! One good thing about most of the hippies that I’ve run into is that they are generally very sincere. As a doctor, they generally avoid giving unecissary medicine, something I detest.
That’s cool that he suggested to try to work it out over the phone, definitely a plus.
Comment #3 by Ian CookNovember 14th, 2006 at 3:44 amI agree w/Tracy, a good ped. is definitely worth their weight in Triaminic! Sounds like you’ve found a good one! Hope J feels better!
Comment #4 by AlisonNovember 14th, 2006 at 9:32 amSounds like our doctors are related. The first time I met our doctor at my son’s 2-week checkup, the doctor was wearing shorts, flip-flops, a Hawaiian print shirt, his hair was spiked and he had a “flavor saver” or soul patch just below his bottom lip. In Maryland. I would have expected to see such a doctor when we lived in Monterey maybe, but Maryland? I’ve never seen a doctor who looked like that and we loved him right away! He totally put me at ease and I have never left that office feeling guilty about my daughter’s light weight or stupid for asking questions like “See that stuff on his foot? Is that supposed to be there?”
I hope your son feels better soon!
Comment #5 by MaryNovember 14th, 2006 at 11:07 amI love that J calls a fever a “feber”. My niece calls it a “beaver”. Imagine my sister groaning when her little joy publically proclaims “Mom, I’ve got a beaver”. (snerkle)
Comment #6 by jamisueNovember 14th, 2006 at 1:40 pmSounds like an awesome Ped! Mine doesn’t have an answering service on weekends - you leave a message on his cell and he gets back to you. How awesome is that??!!
“Feber”. Took me a sec to figure out what he was talking about. I thought he meant the sleep technique….
Comment #7 by AmyNovember 14th, 2006 at 3:02 pmMy favorite pediatrician was one in training who was assigned to visit me in the hospital after the birth of my 6th. He came in, introduced himself and said he’d be happy to answer any questions. Then he asked if this was my first baby and I replied no it’s my 6th. At that he sat on the edge of my bed and said “in that case, maybe I could ask you a few questions”. Ya gotta love it.
Comment #8 by alaskagrandmaNovember 15th, 2006 at 2:57 amI love it.
I love a Doc you can really bond with.
I too, agree, emailing back and forth is SO helpful, and cuts out talking to the middle man or tree or recording!
Comment #9 by Lisa MNovember 20th, 2006 at 2:57 pm