By Hollywood
After dinner my two year old was a mess. There was strawberry shortcake all over Penny’s cheeks and chicken enchilada gumming up her fingers. I told her to come with me to wash up but she ran to her room and hid. We have a rule that she can’t play until after washing up and so I carried her to Time Out.
As soon as I set her down in the corner she looked up at me sweetly.
“I have a great idea, Mom!”
“What’s that?”
“I’m not going to be naughty, I’m not going to hit. I’m going to be gentle with Charlotte, I’m not going to touch the t.v., I’m not going to be fussy…”
And on and on she went, laundry listing all the simple rules we have outlined for her in our home. Finally she finished and said, “those are my ideas.”
“I like those ideas, honey!” I said. “Let’s go wash up now.” I let her out of Time Out but she ran as fast as she could back into her bedroom and hid.
“I thought you weren’t going to be naughty anymore? Now we have to go back to Time Out.” I picked her up and brought her back to Time Out. I set her down and she slumped dejectedly in the corner.
With head hung, she said, “I don’t have any more ideas, Mommy.”
What was it about the “best laid plans of mice and men…”? Let’s give the poor girl an A for Effort.




hehe. How adorable. Kids say the funniest things.
Comment #1 by NikkiMay 15th, 2007 at 8:01 amAww. Poor Penny. Can’t a girl skip a half-bath now and again? (No, not in this house, either.)
Here you go, for effort:
Comment #2 by wynneMay 15th, 2007 at 10:25 amA+
I had a friend tell me something that I’ve never forgotten. She said that 2-year-olds aren’t naughty, they forget. They actually do not have the capacity to remember long-term what they were told to do a little while ago. Hence the constant need for watching a 2-year-old every second. As moms let’s not scold, but teach. And then teach again. And then again. Remember their little brains are just two! My friend was very wise, and a great mom.
Comment #3 by jbnMay 16th, 2007 at 12:56 amjbn-
That is awesome advice! And very greatly needed for me with my 2 year old. I forget that he’s still so young –I need to stop expecting him to behave like his older sisters and do things differently. You’d think I’d be getting the hang of this mothering thing by now, right? Yeah –I wish I could, too…~sigh~
btw, Sarah, your daughter is just adorable. Well, your stories about her are…
Comment #4 by cherylMay 16th, 2007 at 1:06 pmshe has some great ideas, but her secret ones, that she doesn’t tell you yet carries out the most fervently, now those rock! she’s a riot!
Comment #5 by chanelMay 16th, 2007 at 1:07 pmSarah, too funny!
jbn, that’s great advice. Something I need to remember lately with my 2 year old.
Comment #6 by Jamie JMay 16th, 2007 at 4:25 pm