By Heather O.
I took my time getting ready for church today. I washed, dried, and curled my hair, even using my mostly full, rarely used bottle of hairspray to keep it in place. I put on jewelry for the first time in days, and carefully applied my make-up. Since it is a glorious spring day, I chose not to wear the slimming black ensemble I have for the very pregnant, and instead chose a bright, springy dress that, granted, could sort of be described as mumu-like, but is a color that I have been told I look good in. I went to church, hoping that the grooming effort could somehow hide the fact that I do, indeed, resemble a member of a bison herd.
I got more stares, smiles, and giggles today that I ever thought possible. Usually people ask me, “So, how are you feeling?” or something along those lines. Today, there was only one question:
“How much longer do you have, anyway?”
Which, I’m convinced, is code for, ‘WOW, you are lookin’ HUGE, babe.”
A friend of mine at the end of church passed me, and did the giggle and asked the question. Finally I said, “Everybody is giggling today. What’s up?”
She looked at me with a merry expression and said, in the straightforward honest way you can only expect from a friend, “It’s your belly button, Heather. It’s just hilarious.”
I must have looked completely devastated, because she quickly said, “Oh, but it’s BEAUTIFUL, so cute and wonderful! Nobody has a belly like yours–just enjoy it!”
Ok, I suppose my belly button does stick out a little far, far enough to, you know, put out a small child’s eye. But it’s been like that since month 5. What am I supposed to do about it?
I quickly collected my son, and blew out of there. I had flopped myself down on the couch, still wearing my mumu-like dress, when DH came home from his meetings.
“You are indeed great with child,” he said, grinning at me and rubbing my belly.
I blasphemously wondered if the Mother of the Son of God had to put up with all of this crap.




Yes, I can see how others might be amused. Once I lamented to my short friend that the underside of my prego belly got all wet when I did dishes and she said, “Oh, my belly button gets so sore rubbing against the sink.”
Joyce in Oregon
Comment #1 by joyce mathisMay 20th, 2007 at 5:30 pm“Deliverance is nigh”
The realization that i was too pregnant to go to church anymore came when i was trying to find a seat in sunday school. If i wasn’t hitting people behind me with the ‘church bag’ i was whacking poor unsuspecting people in front of my with my big belly! hang in there!
Comment #2 by AlisonMay 20th, 2007 at 6:27 pmI was the first child in my family to have a baby, so it was all new territory for my siblings, and my younger sister asked me every time she saw me if I had “popped” yet (meaning had my belly button popped out yet.) I kept reminding her that she’d know when it did, but it surprisingly never did, but only because I have such a loooong torso that my baby weight was spread more to the sides than the back. But I think a belly button “popping” out is darling, and I wouldn’t have minded it at all! Maybe if I’d had it happen from the 5th month on I’d be singing a different tune, though. You’re amazing!
Comment #3 by StarababaMay 20th, 2007 at 6:51 pmYou are sooooo lucky!! By belly button never popped with any of my kids– I wonder why?
Props to you for getting all gussied up anyway. A super preggo mama needs to feel pretty too, bb’s aside.
Comment #4 by Tracy MMay 20th, 2007 at 7:13 pmI started putting bandaids over my belly button to keep it from protruding out. Unfortunately, it caused a rash around my navel. At my Dr’s appointment he said, “Everything looks great, except I’m worried about that rash around the center of your stomach.” I had to explain how I got the rash. Embarrassing!
Comment #5 by KatrineMay 20th, 2007 at 8:44 pmokay, so mine never stuck out either, but a lady I worked with at the time (when I was pregnant with my 1st) decided since hers had popped out, it was the perfect time to have it peirced!
Comment #6 by moddyMay 20th, 2007 at 8:46 pmThe first prego belly button I ever saw was in in high school
A girl in my class had her baby the night of graduation. She walked into class one day and there it was! We all froze and stared. Poor girl! But it was pretty freaky to a bunch of 17/18 year olds.
Comment #7 by LisaMay 20th, 2007 at 10:19 pmModdy-
I can’t think of anything more horrifying than piercing my belly button right now. Truly.
Katrine- I tried bandaids with my son, because I was working when pregnant and felt it was unprofessional to have a button popping out. They never stayed on, kept sliding off and stuff, or it just looked like I had bandaid over my bellybutton, which I thought looked just as lame. I tried it for a week or two, but got tired of pulling out bandaids from under my shirt. I just let it pop then, too, although I’m sure it wasn’t this bad. Of course, I was wearing sweaters and stuff then, too, so maybe the clothes helped modify the effect.
Oh, and Starababa, I have a long torso too (I’m 5 foot 9). Still, it pops. Go figure.
Comment #8 by Heather O.May 20th, 2007 at 10:42 pmhehe. The grass is always greener on the other side. Mine looked pretty stretched out right before delivery. I think I’d prefer a cute little popped out button.
Comment #9 by nikkiwilcoxMay 21st, 2007 at 4:15 amOkay, to run the risk of banishment from this blog (and be on Heather’s hit list), I tend to cringe at the site of popped bb’s. It has something to do with my issue with outies. Now I know that there is nothing anyone can do about her bb popping out, this is why I feel so sorry for her (no matter who “her” is).
Comment #10 by Natalie S.May 21st, 2007 at 9:03 amHang in there, Heather! You’re almost done!!!
You need to find a cute tee and then embroider a little smirky face in just the right area so that the popped button can be percieved as a stuck out tongue.
yeah,sorry. This too shall pass.
Comment #11 by s'meeMay 21st, 2007 at 12:21 pmAs Roseanne once said (on the show of the same name)…when your belly button pops it’s like the button on the turkey, and it’s ready to come out the oven! Ha! (Not at month 5 though!
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I hate to tell you this, but my popped button never went back in again with my girl. And I had a perfect inny before that.
Comment #12 by ChrissieMay 21st, 2007 at 12:36 pmWe went on a family vacation recently and my very-pregnant sister-in-law was there too. She said some refer to her protruding belly-button (you could see it through her shirt) as “the third nipple.”
Comment #13 by danithewMay 21st, 2007 at 4:14 pmHeather you need the Belly Button Book by Sandra Boyton, it’s great and makes you look at belly buttons in a whole new light.
Comment #14 by moddyMay 21st, 2007 at 4:37 pmAt least I could clean my bb when I was pg. Before that it was a deep, dark, pit. It’s kind of nice for it to see the light for a while.
Comment #15 by popchickMay 22nd, 2007 at 11:49 amTwice in my life I was actually asked to speak in Sacrament Meeting–on a Mother’s Day–within the last seconds of a pregnancy.
One of those times, utterly horrified at the thought of waddling to the podium, I lamented to a friend that I didn’t have a thing to wear.
“Where the dark blue dress,” she advised, “You don’t look quite so elephanty in that.”
Comment #16 by Alison Moore SmithMay 23rd, 2007 at 6:41 amMine didn’t pop on my first so much. It was quite the innie, and then the top of it sort of became a lip.
It definitely popped on my second though (who is 2 1/2 weeks old now). I did get a couple of comments about it, but most of my clothes weren’t fitted enough for it to show. My dh made fun of it sometimes. It was his fault though.
Luckily it has gone back in (although the once slit in my stomach is now more of a hole). It’s a good thing we aren’t supposed to show off our tummies–we can hide these lovely things in the name of modesty.
Comment #17 by AndreaMay 23rd, 2007 at 4:17 pmI feel for you. With my last pregnancy I swear mine popped out before I was even showing. I tried the band-aid thing one Sunday and when I pulled it off it left raw red marks. Ouch! Oh the joys of being pregnant.
Comment #18 by Liza H.May 24th, 2007 at 9:12 pmIt will go back to normal! I promise!
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